I [18 F] cannot seem to stop thinking about sex. I’m sure that it’s normal considering my circumstances of being a virgin, but I can’t help but think things have gotten too deep.
Sexual fantasies and experiences drive my everyday life. It’s now starting to interfere with how I interact with people, especially people of the opposite sex. For example, there’s this guy I talk to frequently in college, let’s call him Robert. Robert and I have been friends since last semester, and I have noticed that he has a crush on me. As I noticed this, I began to develop exclusively sexual feeling for him, whilst disregarding any potential romantic and platonic connections. Anytime we talk, I cannot help but feel my mind drift to a sexual fantasy despite the conversation being anything but that. It gets even worse when I get home, as I struggle with MDD (maladaptive daydreaming disorder). The sexual fantasies are no longer simply faint dreams, but extensive and calculated mental movies that blend into my reality.
During last semester, sex wasn’t a centralized idea in my life. I was super focused on my goals, achieving a 4.0, etc. Yet this semester, sexual ideations are starting to interfere with my overall productivity and self image. I cannot help but believe that I am unattractive due to not having sex, much less holding a guy’s hand.
Is there any way for me to decentralize sex from my life? I miss when it was something to look forward to, rather than something that constantly reminds me of my shortcomings.
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r/sex I [18 F] cannot seem to stop thinking about sex. I’m sure that it’s normal considering my circumstances of being a virgin, but I can’t help but think things have gotten too deep. Sexual fantasies and experiences drive my everyday life. It’s now starting to interfere with how I interact with people, especially people of the opposite sex. For example, there’s this guy I talk to frequently in college, let’s call him Robert. Robert and I have been friends since last semester, and I have noticed that he has a crush on me. As I noticed this, I began to develop exclusively sexual feeling for him, whilst disregarding any potential romantic and platonic connections. Anytime we talk, I cannot help but feel my mind drift to a sexual fantasy despite the conversation being anything but that. It gets even worse when I get home, as I struggle with MDD (maladaptive daydreaming disorder). The sexual fantasies are no longer simply faint dreams, but extensive and calculated mental movies that blend into my reality. During last semester, sex wasn’t a centralized idea in my life. I was super focused on my goals, achieving a 4.0, etc. Yet this semester, sexual ideations are starting to interfere with my overall productivity and self image. I cannot help but believe that I am unattractive due to not having sex, much less holding a guy’s hand. Is there any way for me to decentralize sex from my life? I miss when it was something to look forward to, rather than something that constantly reminds me of my shortcomings. submitted by /u/Material-Moment-2005 [link] [comments]
I [18 F] cannot seem to stop thinking about sex. I’m sure that it’s normal considering my circumstances of being a virgin, but I can’t help but think things have gotten too deep.
Sexual fantasies and experiences drive my everyday life. It’s now starting to interfere with how I interact with people, especially people of the opposite sex. For example, there’s this guy I talk to frequently in college, let’s call him Robert. Robert and I have been friends since last semester, and I have noticed that he has a crush on me. As I noticed this, I began to develop exclusively sexual feeling for him, whilst disregarding any potential romantic and platonic connections. Anytime we talk, I cannot help but feel my mind drift to a sexual fantasy despite the conversation being anything but that. It gets even worse when I get home, as I struggle with MDD (maladaptive daydreaming disorder). The sexual fantasies are no longer simply faint dreams, but extensive and calculated mental movies that blend into my reality.
During last semester, sex wasn’t a centralized idea in my life. I was super focused on my goals, achieving a 4.0, etc. Yet this semester, sexual ideations are starting to interfere with my overall productivity and self image. I cannot help but believe that I am unattractive due to not having sex, much less holding a guy’s hand.
Is there any way for me to decentralize sex from my life? I miss when it was something to look forward to, rather than something that constantly reminds me of my shortcomings.
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