In person or online? Me (F) and my fwb (M) have talked about wanting to try it together, still have some ironing out to do but we’re both pretty interested. He suggested we just go out together one night, have fun and see if anyone comes to us. He said I should be the one to find her, and then if the vibe is right I can introduce her to him and see if they get along, and then take number and get it going from there. He said it like “whatever happens, happens” but honestly I dont rlly see it working that way, personally I stay away from couples when I go out so idk who would be approaching us. Also the only women that have come to me in bars/clubs are gay women, who definitely wouldn’t want to be asked for a threesome with a man lol. Basically I don’t wanna come off as a total creep. I think the other option is to create a joint Tinder account, so it’s obvious from the start what the goal is so no one feels misled. But for that, I’m not sure how successful couples actually are on there. Also, me and my fwb would both need to be attracted to & get along with the 3rd, which may complicate things more. SO, ppl who’ve planned 3sums, how did u do it??
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r/sex In person or online? Me (F) and my fwb (M) have talked about wanting to try it together, still have some ironing out to do but we’re both pretty interested. He suggested we just go out together one night, have fun and see if anyone comes to us. He said I should be the one to find her, and then if the vibe is right I can introduce her to him and see if they get along, and then take number and get it going from there. He said it like “whatever happens, happens” but honestly I dont rlly see it working that way, personally I stay away from couples when I go out so idk who would be approaching us. Also the only women that have come to me in bars/clubs are gay women, who definitely wouldn’t want to be asked for a threesome with a man lol. Basically I don’t wanna come off as a total creep. I think the other option is to create a joint Tinder account, so it’s obvious from the start what the goal is so no one feels misled. But for that, I’m not sure how successful couples actually are on there. Also, me and my fwb would both need to be attracted to & get along with the 3rd, which may complicate things more. SO, ppl who’ve planned 3sums, how did u do it?? submitted by /u/EyeOk1201 [link] [comments]
In person or online? Me (F) and my fwb (M) have talked about wanting to try it together, still have some ironing out to do but we’re both pretty interested. He suggested we just go out together one night, have fun and see if anyone comes to us. He said I should be the one to find her, and then if the vibe is right I can introduce her to him and see if they get along, and then take number and get it going from there. He said it like “whatever happens, happens” but honestly I dont rlly see it working that way, personally I stay away from couples when I go out so idk who would be approaching us. Also the only women that have come to me in bars/clubs are gay women, who definitely wouldn’t want to be asked for a threesome with a man lol. Basically I don’t wanna come off as a total creep. I think the other option is to create a joint Tinder account, so it’s obvious from the start what the goal is so no one feels misled. But for that, I’m not sure how successful couples actually are on there. Also, me and my fwb would both need to be attracted to & get along with the 3rd, which may complicate things more. SO, ppl who’ve planned 3sums, how did u do it??
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