I feel like explaining to my partner how I want to be touched turns him off. I love to use crystal wands and they feel so amazing but when my partner uses them with me he usually hurts me or use them in ways that don’t give me so much pleasure. But I notice I hurt him if I told him how I want it. I once was explaining him how to touch my clit (he still havn’t learned after 5 years), and he told me like oh I’m 30 and I’m learning how to touch a clit. I don’t know if it is better to explain this things while we are not having sex, or how can i guide him during sex without making him feel embarrased or hurt?
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r/sex I feel like explaining to my partner how I want to be touched turns him off. I love to use crystal wands and they feel so amazing but when my partner uses them with me he usually hurts me or use them in ways that don’t give me so much pleasure. But I notice I hurt him if I told him how I want it. I once was explaining him how to touch my clit (he still havn’t learned after 5 years), and he told me like oh I’m 30 and I’m learning how to touch a clit. I don’t know if it is better to explain this things while we are not having sex, or how can i guide him during sex without making him feel embarrased or hurt? submitted by /u/ExistingApartment830 [link] [comments]
I feel like explaining to my partner how I want to be touched turns him off. I love to use crystal wands and they feel so amazing but when my partner uses them with me he usually hurts me or use them in ways that don’t give me so much pleasure. But I notice I hurt him if I told him how I want it. I once was explaining him how to touch my clit (he still havn’t learned after 5 years), and he told me like oh I’m 30 and I’m learning how to touch a clit. I don’t know if it is better to explain this things while we are not having sex, or how can i guide him during sex without making him feel embarrased or hurt?
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