26F with a 28M partner.
So, I think I fucked up?!We were in a LDR for 3 years; so we saw each other once every 3 or 6 months. Initially I couldn’t say what I wanted in bed so I just went along with what he did and faked orgasms.. 3 years in when he moved back, I realized I fucked up. He thought he was doing great cause I would “orgasm” quickly with barely any efforts from his end.. :/
Now, for the past year I stopped faking, and I tried showing and telling him what I like and how I liked it. But he just couldn’t get it right and would get a little impatient with how long it took. So I would just say maybe I’m not in the mood or just tired. So no orgasm still..
He’s probably used to how quickly I used to “cum” with bare minimum efforts. Now, what do I do?? I’ve started to get sexually frustrated. I don’t want to tell him I faked orgasms! I feel I’m too deep into this..
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r/sex 26F with a 28M partner. So, I think I fucked up?!We were in a LDR for 3 years; so we saw each other once every 3 or 6 months. Initially I couldn’t say what I wanted in bed so I just went along with what he did and faked orgasms.. 3 years in when he moved back, I realized I fucked up. He thought he was doing great cause I would “orgasm” quickly with barely any efforts from his end.. :/ Now, for the past year I stopped faking, and I tried showing and telling him what I like and how I liked it. But he just couldn’t get it right and would get a little impatient with how long it took. So I would just say maybe I’m not in the mood or just tired. So no orgasm still.. He’s probably used to how quickly I used to “cum” with bare minimum efforts. Now, what do I do?? I’ve started to get sexually frustrated. I don’t want to tell him I faked orgasms! I feel I’m too deep into this.. submitted by /u/PrestigiousFlow5230 [link] [comments]
26F with a 28M partner.
So, I think I fucked up?!We were in a LDR for 3 years; so we saw each other once every 3 or 6 months. Initially I couldn’t say what I wanted in bed so I just went along with what he did and faked orgasms.. 3 years in when he moved back, I realized I fucked up. He thought he was doing great cause I would “orgasm” quickly with barely any efforts from his end.. :/
Now, for the past year I stopped faking, and I tried showing and telling him what I like and how I liked it. But he just couldn’t get it right and would get a little impatient with how long it took. So I would just say maybe I’m not in the mood or just tired. So no orgasm still..
He’s probably used to how quickly I used to “cum” with bare minimum efforts. Now, what do I do?? I’ve started to get sexually frustrated. I don’t want to tell him I faked orgasms! I feel I’m too deep into this..
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