I (26f) got my heart broken by a man 5 years ago and I haven’t felt any kind of attraction to men since. I’ve just been dating women and having a great time with them. If I think about men during sexy time, it completely ruins it. They turn me off so fast. I can only get off to thinking about women and even hearing male voices will make me less aroused. But I was very into my ex, a man, so I don’t feel like I can call myself a lesbian. But the idea of being with a man ever again makes me drier than the Mojave desert.
Is it possible that heartbreak/trauma can make you permanently lose attraction to an entire gender?
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r/sex I (26f) got my heart broken by a man 5 years ago and I haven’t felt any kind of attraction to men since. I’ve just been dating women and having a great time with them. If I think about men during sexy time, it completely ruins it. They turn me off so fast. I can only get off to thinking about women and even hearing male voices will make me less aroused. But I was very into my ex, a man, so I don’t feel like I can call myself a lesbian. But the idea of being with a man ever again makes me drier than the Mojave desert. Is it possible that heartbreak/trauma can make you permanently lose attraction to an entire gender? submitted by /u/LilyLovesAttention [link] [comments]
I (26f) got my heart broken by a man 5 years ago and I haven’t felt any kind of attraction to men since. I’ve just been dating women and having a great time with them. If I think about men during sexy time, it completely ruins it. They turn me off so fast. I can only get off to thinking about women and even hearing male voices will make me less aroused. But I was very into my ex, a man, so I don’t feel like I can call myself a lesbian. But the idea of being with a man ever again makes me drier than the Mojave desert.
Is it possible that heartbreak/trauma can make you permanently lose attraction to an entire gender?
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