19f – have never ever orgasmed on my own & with bf /u/bronzebeesuit-5 Sex

hi everyone! so recently i’ve gotten into my first relationship (so i used to be a virgin). i never masterbated before it and i’ve only recently become sexually active. he’s been with others before so he knows what to do. the issue is, during sex it just doesn’t feel great and i’ve never orgasmed at all during it and since i’ve never masterbated my whole life i don’t really know what it feels like.

ive tried masterbating but it only feels kinda good with a vibrator, never all the way though. with fingers, i honestly don’t feel a thing when i rub and im not sure how it could feel so amazing since my clit just usually feels numb. maybe it doesn’t help that i’m on bc for my pcos?

i feel bad for my bf since sex is really important to him and he needs it all the time, but for me i’m just not feeling anything. we’ve tried so many positions for g-spot stimulation and he rubs me during too. it’s also so hard for me to get turned on or randomly horny but yet i’m apparently always wet, so good for him ig (ofc he could also make his ex O at least 17 times a day).

should i just accept that im asexual? i know i’ve been raised in a strict home but i didn’t think i’d be affected this much (i didn’t even know what masterbating meant or what a clit was till not long ago). or maybe i just have anorgasmia and should just accept that. i’m just tired of faking it or saying it feels okay when it doesn’t 🙁

hi everyone! so recently i’ve gotten into my first relationship (so i used to be a virgin). i never masterbated before it and i’ve only recently become sexually active. he’s been with others before so he knows what to do. the issue is, during sex it just doesn’t feel great and i’ve never orgasmed at all during it and since i’ve never masterbated my whole life i don’t really know what it feels like.

ive tried masterbating but it only feels kinda good with a vibrator, never all the way though. with fingers, i honestly don’t feel a thing when i rub and im not sure how it could feel so amazing since my clit just usually feels numb. maybe it doesn’t help that i’m on bc for my pcos?

i feel bad for my bf since sex is really important to him and he needs it all the time, but for me i’m just not feeling anything. we’ve tried so many positions for g-spot stimulation and he rubs me during too. it’s also so hard for me to get turned on or randomly horny but yet i’m apparently always wet, so good for him ig (ofc he could also make his ex O at least 17 times a day).

should i just accept that im asexual? i know i’ve been raised in a strict home but i didn’t think i’d be affected this much (i didn’t even know what masterbating meant or what a clit was till not long ago). or maybe i just have anorgasmia and should just accept that. i’m just tired of faking it or saying it feels okay when it doesn’t 🙁