Some context: I (18m) started dating this pansexual person (18f) about 4 months ago. We’ve been in a healthy sexual relationship and our relationship situation aside, sex has been great. One day when talking about kinks she told me she likes being watched, and told me about her friend whose boyfriend watched like she was being fucked. Ngl, I’m kinda into the idea and told her it was hot and I’d be down for it. We haven’t done it yet, but I’d like to try to understand WHY I’m into the idea? I hate the idea of being a cuck which imo is usually associated with shame. Why am I into the idea of watching her being fucked by someone else if I’m not into cuckolding? Am I just rationalizing myself into thinking I’m not or is there some other reason as to why people like to watch? When I told this to my partner, she said it could be because it gives some people feelings of power, but I’m not sure.
Tl;dr: I want to see my girlfriend fucked by someone else while I hold her hand and watch but I would like to know WHY I would want to do so if I’m not into cuckolding? Does it give a feeling of power that I’m being chosen over someone else even though she’s fucking someone else? People who’ve done this, pls enlighten me?
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r/sex Some context: I (18m) started dating this pansexual person (18f) about 4 months ago. We’ve been in a healthy sexual relationship and our relationship situation aside, sex has been great. One day when talking about kinks she told me she likes being watched, and told me about her friend whose boyfriend watched like she was being fucked. Ngl, I’m kinda into the idea and told her it was hot and I’d be down for it. We haven’t done it yet, but I’d like to try to understand WHY I’m into the idea? I hate the idea of being a cuck which imo is usually associated with shame. Why am I into the idea of watching her being fucked by someone else if I’m not into cuckolding? Am I just rationalizing myself into thinking I’m not or is there some other reason as to why people like to watch? When I told this to my partner, she said it could be because it gives some people feelings of power, but I’m not sure. Tl;dr: I want to see my girlfriend fucked by someone else while I hold her hand and watch but I would like to know WHY I would want to do so if I’m not into cuckolding? Does it give a feeling of power that I’m being chosen over someone else even though she’s fucking someone else? People who’ve done this, pls enlighten me? submitted by /u/Psychological-Worry3 [link] [comments]
Some context: I (18m) started dating this pansexual person (18f) about 4 months ago. We’ve been in a healthy sexual relationship and our relationship situation aside, sex has been great. One day when talking about kinks she told me she likes being watched, and told me about her friend whose boyfriend watched like she was being fucked. Ngl, I’m kinda into the idea and told her it was hot and I’d be down for it. We haven’t done it yet, but I’d like to try to understand WHY I’m into the idea? I hate the idea of being a cuck which imo is usually associated with shame. Why am I into the idea of watching her being fucked by someone else if I’m not into cuckolding? Am I just rationalizing myself into thinking I’m not or is there some other reason as to why people like to watch? When I told this to my partner, she said it could be because it gives some people feelings of power, but I’m not sure.
Tl;dr: I want to see my girlfriend fucked by someone else while I hold her hand and watch but I would like to know WHY I would want to do so if I’m not into cuckolding? Does it give a feeling of power that I’m being chosen over someone else even though she’s fucking someone else? People who’ve done this, pls enlighten me?
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