Hello friends. I’ve been having some problems for a few weeks now. Sex was always a difficult topic for me because my ex-girlfriend wanted to have very little sex in the six years of the relationship and I was constantly under pressure either to let it come to the moment that we have sex or that when we have sex I have to deliver very well. Now we have separated and I can live more sexually. I am bisexual and date both men and women and also couples. These sexual experiences are fulfilling in some way, such as giving me an orgasm through my own stimulation or through blowjobs. But as soon as it comes to penetrative sex, I ALWAYS lose my erection. I constantly rethink whether my penis is hard enough, I check if the erection is still there, I am worried all the time that it will go away or that the penis is too small. I leave my physical level and am only in my head. I even got pills from the urologist to break this spiral but they don’t help, I still lose the erection. I guess my body goes into stress and is in fight and flight mode. How do you manage to stay with yourself, your Body and sex and worry less? Do you have any tips?
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r/sex Hello friends. I’ve been having some problems for a few weeks now. Sex was always a difficult topic for me because my ex-girlfriend wanted to have very little sex in the six years of the relationship and I was constantly under pressure either to let it come to the moment that we have sex or that when we have sex I have to deliver very well. Now we have separated and I can live more sexually. I am bisexual and date both men and women and also couples. These sexual experiences are fulfilling in some way, such as giving me an orgasm through my own stimulation or through blowjobs. But as soon as it comes to penetrative sex, I ALWAYS lose my erection. I constantly rethink whether my penis is hard enough, I check if the erection is still there, I am worried all the time that it will go away or that the penis is too small. I leave my physical level and am only in my head. I even got pills from the urologist to break this spiral but they don’t help, I still lose the erection. I guess my body goes into stress and is in fight and flight mode. How do you manage to stay with yourself, your Body and sex and worry less? Do you have any tips? submitted by /u/robgerm95 [link] [comments]
Hello friends. I’ve been having some problems for a few weeks now. Sex was always a difficult topic for me because my ex-girlfriend wanted to have very little sex in the six years of the relationship and I was constantly under pressure either to let it come to the moment that we have sex or that when we have sex I have to deliver very well. Now we have separated and I can live more sexually. I am bisexual and date both men and women and also couples. These sexual experiences are fulfilling in some way, such as giving me an orgasm through my own stimulation or through blowjobs. But as soon as it comes to penetrative sex, I ALWAYS lose my erection. I constantly rethink whether my penis is hard enough, I check if the erection is still there, I am worried all the time that it will go away or that the penis is too small. I leave my physical level and am only in my head. I even got pills from the urologist to break this spiral but they don’t help, I still lose the erection. I guess my body goes into stress and is in fight and flight mode. How do you manage to stay with yourself, your Body and sex and worry less? Do you have any tips?
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