1 (16F) have only recently got my first boyfriend (17M) and lost my virginity. While fingers and shit are fine, we have tried having sex 4 or 5 times now and all i can say is that its extremely painful and extremely uncomfortable. It almost burns(?) but the stretching kinda burn if that makes sense. He is in no way rough and very patient, we have gone slowly, sat for awhile waiting for it to get more comfortable before continuing, etc but it never changes.
I know its soon and all but its starting to severely wear me down and generally almost always ruins the mood when having sex and i keep feeling like a fuck up every time for not being able to give my boyfriend what he wants.
Im desperate at this point, how do i fix this?
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r/sex 1 (16F) have only recently got my first boyfriend (17M) and lost my virginity. While fingers and shit are fine, we have tried having sex 4 or 5 times now and all i can say is that its extremely painful and extremely uncomfortable. It almost burns(?) but the stretching kinda burn if that makes sense. He is in no way rough and very patient, we have gone slowly, sat for awhile waiting for it to get more comfortable before continuing, etc but it never changes. I know its soon and all but its starting to severely wear me down and generally almost always ruins the mood when having sex and i keep feeling like a fuck up every time for not being able to give my boyfriend what he wants. Im desperate at this point, how do i fix this? submitted by /u/mantismuncher [link] [comments]
1 (16F) have only recently got my first boyfriend (17M) and lost my virginity. While fingers and shit are fine, we have tried having sex 4 or 5 times now and all i can say is that its extremely painful and extremely uncomfortable. It almost burns(?) but the stretching kinda burn if that makes sense. He is in no way rough and very patient, we have gone slowly, sat for awhile waiting for it to get more comfortable before continuing, etc but it never changes.
I know its soon and all but its starting to severely wear me down and generally almost always ruins the mood when having sex and i keep feeling like a fuck up every time for not being able to give my boyfriend what he wants.
Im desperate at this point, how do i fix this?
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