My boyfriend didn’t get hard the first time we had sex /u/Pitiful-Studio5154 Sex

I’ve (26F) been dating my boyfriend (24M) for a month now. We decided last night to get intimate. We’d both had a fair amount of wine and it was our first time being intimate with anyone for a while. He didn’t get hard, didn’t have an erection, even when I was trying to suck his dick. He chalked it up to the wine, but I unfortunately still took it a little personal and (embarrassingly) cried. He told me that he was sorry and that it was okay, which I really appreciate. But I guess for my own peace of mind, I can’t help but wonder if this is normal

I’ve (26F) been dating my boyfriend (24M) for a month now. We decided last night to get intimate. We’d both had a fair amount of wine and it was our first time being intimate with anyone for a while. He didn’t get hard, didn’t have an erection, even when I was trying to suck his dick. He chalked it up to the wine, but I unfortunately still took it a little personal and (embarrassingly) cried. He told me that he was sorry and that it was okay, which I really appreciate. But I guess for my own peace of mind, I can’t help but wonder if this is normal