How can I be more active as a woman? /u/yxcvbna Sex

I’m (F30, straight) not super experienced and especially with casual hook ups or new partners I’m always very insecure and not sure what to do, during foreplay and also later whilst having sex.

Any advice? What do you usually do girls, and what feels best for you guys?

Everything apart from kissing on the lips, around the neck and touching a bit here and there feels weird to me. Like when I try to kiss further down I suddenly feel super lost and awkward haha, and especially when lying next to someone I feel they angle for a handjob is just majorly wrong. I often end up doing a super abrupt change of position which just does not feel smooth at all.. any help and advice is highly appreciated lol.

Thanks.

I’m (F30, straight) not super experienced and especially with casual hook ups or new partners I’m always very insecure and not sure what to do, during foreplay and also later whilst having sex.

Any advice? What do you usually do girls, and what feels best for you guys?

Everything apart from kissing on the lips, around the neck and touching a bit here and there feels weird to me. Like when I try to kiss further down I suddenly feel super lost and awkward haha, and especially when lying next to someone I feel they angle for a handjob is just majorly wrong. I often end up doing a super abrupt change of position which just does not feel smooth at all.. any help and advice is highly appreciated lol.

Thanks.