My husband has stated he doesn’t want another baby. We have 5 already. He is refusing to wear condoms, won’t get a vasectomy, doesn’t want me on hormonal birth control, doesn’t want me to get surgery or take time off work so that I can. But wants unprotected sex and turns into a crabby jerk if I turn him down. When I actually have unprotected sex with him he gets to the point and goes limp bc he’s “scared” of pregnancy. I am not scared of pregnancy and was ready to have another baby with him that we had discussed before he changed his mind about it. When he goes limp I am usually already satisfied and I refuse to spend another 15 minutes to finish him off because I think he’s the one making our sex life way too complicated and I just plain don’t want to. I’m tired, I’m done, and I feel like I’m already doing more than I should allow since he doesn’t really want a baby, and I did my duty getting him to the point. AITA? He thinks I’m selfish because I am satisfied and he’s not. I think he’s selfish because he is willing to risk having a baby he doesn’t want. His reasoning is he’s old and doesn’t want to have kids in the house too late in life. He’s over 40.
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r/sex My husband has stated he doesn’t want another baby. We have 5 already. He is refusing to wear condoms, won’t get a vasectomy, doesn’t want me on hormonal birth control, doesn’t want me to get surgery or take time off work so that I can. But wants unprotected sex and turns into a crabby jerk if I turn him down. When I actually have unprotected sex with him he gets to the point and goes limp bc he’s “scared” of pregnancy. I am not scared of pregnancy and was ready to have another baby with him that we had discussed before he changed his mind about it. When he goes limp I am usually already satisfied and I refuse to spend another 15 minutes to finish him off because I think he’s the one making our sex life way too complicated and I just plain don’t want to. I’m tired, I’m done, and I feel like I’m already doing more than I should allow since he doesn’t really want a baby, and I did my duty getting him to the point. AITA? He thinks I’m selfish because I am satisfied and he’s not. I think he’s selfish because he is willing to risk having a baby he doesn’t want. His reasoning is he’s old and doesn’t want to have kids in the house too late in life. He’s over 40. submitted by /u/Bookowa [link] [comments]
My husband has stated he doesn’t want another baby. We have 5 already. He is refusing to wear condoms, won’t get a vasectomy, doesn’t want me on hormonal birth control, doesn’t want me to get surgery or take time off work so that I can. But wants unprotected sex and turns into a crabby jerk if I turn him down. When I actually have unprotected sex with him he gets to the point and goes limp bc he’s “scared” of pregnancy. I am not scared of pregnancy and was ready to have another baby with him that we had discussed before he changed his mind about it. When he goes limp I am usually already satisfied and I refuse to spend another 15 minutes to finish him off because I think he’s the one making our sex life way too complicated and I just plain don’t want to. I’m tired, I’m done, and I feel like I’m already doing more than I should allow since he doesn’t really want a baby, and I did my duty getting him to the point. AITA? He thinks I’m selfish because I am satisfied and he’s not. I think he’s selfish because he is willing to risk having a baby he doesn’t want. His reasoning is he’s old and doesn’t want to have kids in the house too late in life. He’s over 40.
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