Wife only wants love making /u/quackadiliak Sex

I think I’m finding out my wife and I are wired very differently when it comes to sex. The picture I’m starting to get is that she’s only interested in sex if it’s deep, meaningful, lovemaking, vanilla type sex is how it feels to me. She’s very awkward about expressing any kind of kinkiness or allowing sex to be just driven by fun/exploration. It’s basically very boring. She’s never provocative or teasing or adventurous at all. I’m at the point where I want an exciting fun spirited experience so bad it’s all I think about. I’d be happy to be monogamous with someone that wants to keep things fun. I think short of divorce I’m never going to have the fun I so much want.

I think I’m finding out my wife and I are wired very differently when it comes to sex. The picture I’m starting to get is that she’s only interested in sex if it’s deep, meaningful, lovemaking, vanilla type sex is how it feels to me. She’s very awkward about expressing any kind of kinkiness or allowing sex to be just driven by fun/exploration. It’s basically very boring. She’s never provocative or teasing or adventurous at all. I’m at the point where I want an exciting fun spirited experience so bad it’s all I think about. I’d be happy to be monogamous with someone that wants to keep things fun. I think short of divorce I’m never going to have the fun I so much want.