I was at a friend’s party and met his flatmate. I ended up getting with the flatmate and went to his room with him where we spent a lot of time kissing. I had to tell him at least five times I didn’t want to have sex. I was having fun but I didn’t want to do that.
In the morning we kissed a bit again and he put my hand on his penis a couple of times. I touched it for about two seconds but wasn’t doing it properly because I didn’t want to and I was going to stop. He then said ‘no, do it like this’ and started masturbating until he ejaculated on me. He didn’t ask if this was ok and I felt very uncomfortable. I didn’t feel like I could say anything because I didn’t want to embarrass him and just sort of froze while it was happening, so I was just lying there looking at him. Just before he ejaculated he told me to ‘grab his balls’, which I did because I panicked and didn’t want to make the situation awkward.
I’m just wondering if this is assault? I feel like because I didn’t say no he wouldn’t have necessarily known that I wasn’t ok with it. But it seems like a weird thing to do anyway especially if you don’t know someone.
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r/sex I was at a friend’s party and met his flatmate. I ended up getting with the flatmate and went to his room with him where we spent a lot of time kissing. I had to tell him at least five times I didn’t want to have sex. I was having fun but I didn’t want to do that. In the morning we kissed a bit again and he put my hand on his penis a couple of times. I touched it for about two seconds but wasn’t doing it properly because I didn’t want to and I was going to stop. He then said ‘no, do it like this’ and started masturbating until he ejaculated on me. He didn’t ask if this was ok and I felt very uncomfortable. I didn’t feel like I could say anything because I didn’t want to embarrass him and just sort of froze while it was happening, so I was just lying there looking at him. Just before he ejaculated he told me to ‘grab his balls’, which I did because I panicked and didn’t want to make the situation awkward. I’m just wondering if this is assault? I feel like because I didn’t say no he wouldn’t have necessarily known that I wasn’t ok with it. But it seems like a weird thing to do anyway especially if you don’t know someone. submitted by /u/Apprehensive_Safe199 [link] [comments]
I was at a friend’s party and met his flatmate. I ended up getting with the flatmate and went to his room with him where we spent a lot of time kissing. I had to tell him at least five times I didn’t want to have sex. I was having fun but I didn’t want to do that.
In the morning we kissed a bit again and he put my hand on his penis a couple of times. I touched it for about two seconds but wasn’t doing it properly because I didn’t want to and I was going to stop. He then said ‘no, do it like this’ and started masturbating until he ejaculated on me. He didn’t ask if this was ok and I felt very uncomfortable. I didn’t feel like I could say anything because I didn’t want to embarrass him and just sort of froze while it was happening, so I was just lying there looking at him. Just before he ejaculated he told me to ‘grab his balls’, which I did because I panicked and didn’t want to make the situation awkward.
I’m just wondering if this is assault? I feel like because I didn’t say no he wouldn’t have necessarily known that I wasn’t ok with it. But it seems like a weird thing to do anyway especially if you don’t know someone.
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