Saying no to sex never works /u/Throwaway-25716 Sex

I’ve been dating around and I feel like this always happens and ruins a good start of what could have been something good, reading the faq it tells you how to understand what consent is but not what to do when they keep pushing and you just allow it to happen.

This isn’t just a one time thing, I’m finding that men will seem like they are respecting what I’m saying “I only want to cuddle, I am craving physical affection but I don’t want to have sex yet” and they say “yeah I’m the same” or that they get it but then when we go to cuddle they start getting sexual, I say no and they stop then go again and again and again until I just allow it so they leave. I feel so disgusting and sad, how can I be beautiful if you’re only using me to get what you want?

If I kick them out then I’m the bad guy, if I let it happen then maybe I’ll still get the affection, but I never do the way I want because sex happened.

I guess I just need advice on how to continue saying no or how to tell them to leave without feeling like I’m the problem?

It’s so exhausting and frustrating, I think I’m just going to be alone forever because men are never going to listen to me.

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​r/sex I’ve been dating around and I feel like this always happens and ruins a good start of what could have been something good, reading the faq it tells you how to understand what consent is but not what to do when they keep pushing and you just allow it to happen. This isn’t just a one time thing, I’m finding that men will seem like they are respecting what I’m saying “I only want to cuddle, I am craving physical affection but I don’t want to have sex yet” and they say “yeah I’m the same” or that they get it but then when we go to cuddle they start getting sexual, I say no and they stop then go again and again and again until I just allow it so they leave. I feel so disgusting and sad, how can I be beautiful if you’re only using me to get what you want? If I kick them out then I’m the bad guy, if I let it happen then maybe I’ll still get the affection, but I never do the way I want because sex happened. I guess I just need advice on how to continue saying no or how to tell them to leave without feeling like I’m the problem? It’s so exhausting and frustrating, I think I’m just going to be alone forever because men are never going to listen to me. submitted by /u/Throwaway-25716 [link] [comments] 

I’ve been dating around and I feel like this always happens and ruins a good start of what could have been something good, reading the faq it tells you how to understand what consent is but not what to do when they keep pushing and you just allow it to happen.

This isn’t just a one time thing, I’m finding that men will seem like they are respecting what I’m saying “I only want to cuddle, I am craving physical affection but I don’t want to have sex yet” and they say “yeah I’m the same” or that they get it but then when we go to cuddle they start getting sexual, I say no and they stop then go again and again and again until I just allow it so they leave. I feel so disgusting and sad, how can I be beautiful if you’re only using me to get what you want?

If I kick them out then I’m the bad guy, if I let it happen then maybe I’ll still get the affection, but I never do the way I want because sex happened.

I guess I just need advice on how to continue saying no or how to tell them to leave without feeling like I’m the problem?

It’s so exhausting and frustrating, I think I’m just going to be alone forever because men are never going to listen to me.

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