How can I have a one night stand and kiss strangers when I’m worried about STDS? /u/Throwing_aways4 Sex

Like if I meet someone at a party and I want to hook up but I don’t know the last time they’ve been tested, and if they do have an std, if they are in an active outbreak. I don’t really understand how people do one night stands in that sense. I know I can protect myself with condoms and dental dans but when I bring up sexual health and safety measures it seems to sour the mood. I’ve also been told you are supposed to give blowjobs without condoms but I wouldn’t be comfortable with that not knowing the other person’s last std test results. I’m especially concerned on the idea of kissing a stranger. I want to be fun and free but how are people doing it?

Like if I meet someone at a party and I want to hook up but I don’t know the last time they’ve been tested, and if they do have an std, if they are in an active outbreak. I don’t really understand how people do one night stands in that sense. I know I can protect myself with condoms and dental dans but when I bring up sexual health and safety measures it seems to sour the mood. I’ve also been told you are supposed to give blowjobs without condoms but I wouldn’t be comfortable with that not knowing the other person’s last std test results. I’m especially concerned on the idea of kissing a stranger. I want to be fun and free but how are people doing it?