Sorry in advance for inaccurate english
Me (20m) and my (20f) girlfriend are having sex for 2 years now, and she was never able to enjoy penetration due to a possible mental barrier (at least this is what we assume), because when I am going down on her or fingering her she will get off with ease after about 3-4 minutes at max. But when we try to have sex this is a completely different story, the thing is that the foreplay is very enjoyable and the sexual energy is sky high for bot of us, and at the moment I try to “go in” this is a big turn off for her, everything goes from 100 to 0 and she just wont enjoy it, we tried everything, every possible pose and tried doing it while we are both drunk to maybe loosen things up for her for her but it wont work, even in the rare cases where she actually wants me to penetrate after the foreplay and really craves for it, it will be enjoyable for her for a few moments but thats it… This has been a big deal for me lately especially after a recent conversation my gf had with her friends recently, almost all of them mentioned how much they all enjoy sex and the great sex life they have with their partners and it saddens me that its not the case for us because I love her so much and I want her to enjoy it as much as I do and I seriously consider to get a professional help lately.
I would love to hear your tips and suggestions for us, thanks!!!
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r/sex Sorry in advance for inaccurate english Me (20m) and my (20f) girlfriend are having sex for 2 years now, and she was never able to enjoy penetration due to a possible mental barrier (at least this is what we assume), because when I am going down on her or fingering her she will get off with ease after about 3-4 minutes at max. But when we try to have sex this is a completely different story, the thing is that the foreplay is very enjoyable and the sexual energy is sky high for bot of us, and at the moment I try to “go in” this is a big turn off for her, everything goes from 100 to 0 and she just wont enjoy it, we tried everything, every possible pose and tried doing it while we are both drunk to maybe loosen things up for her for her but it wont work, even in the rare cases where she actually wants me to penetrate after the foreplay and really craves for it, it will be enjoyable for her for a few moments but thats it… This has been a big deal for me lately especially after a recent conversation my gf had with her friends recently, almost all of them mentioned how much they all enjoy sex and the great sex life they have with their partners and it saddens me that its not the case for us because I love her so much and I want her to enjoy it as much as I do and I seriously consider to get a professional help lately. I would love to hear your tips and suggestions for us, thanks!!! submitted by /u/Rude_Seaworthiness31 [link] [comments]
Sorry in advance for inaccurate english
Me (20m) and my (20f) girlfriend are having sex for 2 years now, and she was never able to enjoy penetration due to a possible mental barrier (at least this is what we assume), because when I am going down on her or fingering her she will get off with ease after about 3-4 minutes at max. But when we try to have sex this is a completely different story, the thing is that the foreplay is very enjoyable and the sexual energy is sky high for bot of us, and at the moment I try to “go in” this is a big turn off for her, everything goes from 100 to 0 and she just wont enjoy it, we tried everything, every possible pose and tried doing it while we are both drunk to maybe loosen things up for her for her but it wont work, even in the rare cases where she actually wants me to penetrate after the foreplay and really craves for it, it will be enjoyable for her for a few moments but thats it… This has been a big deal for me lately especially after a recent conversation my gf had with her friends recently, almost all of them mentioned how much they all enjoy sex and the great sex life they have with their partners and it saddens me that its not the case for us because I love her so much and I want her to enjoy it as much as I do and I seriously consider to get a professional help lately.
I would love to hear your tips and suggestions for us, thanks!!!
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