Feeling like I made a mistake in bed /u/FirefighterJust7156 Sex

I[20M] was having sex with my partner[20F], when I decided to play with her ass. She had physically pulled my hand to her butthole before, and I got the signal to play with it. I remembered this in bed during this encounter, and played with her ass before sticking a finger in. After a few minutes of this, she asked me to take the finger out, and we kept the encounter going. After we finished she said she was uncomfortable with me putting a finger up her butt, and asked me not to do it again. I feel like such a creep for doing that without asking or having her tell me, and doubly so that she didn’t like it. I’m glad she communicated this so I know not to do it again, but I can’t shake the feeling that I assaulted her or made her feel violated.

I[20M] was having sex with my partner[20F], when I decided to play with her ass. She had physically pulled my hand to her butthole before, and I got the signal to play with it. I remembered this in bed during this encounter, and played with her ass before sticking a finger in. After a few minutes of this, she asked me to take the finger out, and we kept the encounter going. After we finished she said she was uncomfortable with me putting a finger up her butt, and asked me not to do it again. I feel like such a creep for doing that without asking or having her tell me, and doubly so that she didn’t like it. I’m glad she communicated this so I know not to do it again, but I can’t shake the feeling that I assaulted her or made her feel violated.