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I (Young Adult Male) find it very difficult to climax in the presence of my partner. I’ve had this issue with every person I’ve been with. What’s the issue?

I can enjoy the sex and the experience as a whole but, still, I struggle to orgasm or to get particularly close to orgasm. It’s not a physical issue because I can orgasm in a fairly short time and with not much force on my own, and even a lot of physical stimulation during sex does not get me there.

I would therefore say it’s a psychological issue, although I don’t think it’s performance anxiety, which I know is often an issue for people. I also don’t think it’s a porn-related issue – I don’t watch porn regularly, and I can easily orgasm when masturbating to memories of my sexual experiences etc.

Does anyone have any advice? It would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

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​r/sex I (Young Adult Male) find it very difficult to climax in the presence of my partner. I’ve had this issue with every person I’ve been with. What’s the issue? I can enjoy the sex and the experience as a whole but, still, I struggle to orgasm or to get particularly close to orgasm. It’s not a physical issue because I can orgasm in a fairly short time and with not much force on my own, and even a lot of physical stimulation during sex does not get me there. I would therefore say it’s a psychological issue, although I don’t think it’s performance anxiety, which I know is often an issue for people. I also don’t think it’s a porn-related issue – I don’t watch porn regularly, and I can easily orgasm when masturbating to memories of my sexual experiences etc. Does anyone have any advice? It would be greatly appreciated, thanks! submitted by /u/ThrowDisAway123_ [link] [comments] 

I (Young Adult Male) find it very difficult to climax in the presence of my partner. I’ve had this issue with every person I’ve been with. What’s the issue?

I can enjoy the sex and the experience as a whole but, still, I struggle to orgasm or to get particularly close to orgasm. It’s not a physical issue because I can orgasm in a fairly short time and with not much force on my own, and even a lot of physical stimulation during sex does not get me there.

I would therefore say it’s a psychological issue, although I don’t think it’s performance anxiety, which I know is often an issue for people. I also don’t think it’s a porn-related issue – I don’t watch porn regularly, and I can easily orgasm when masturbating to memories of my sexual experiences etc.

Does anyone have any advice? It would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

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