Bf doesn’t like condoms and I hate birth control. Sex went to zero. /u/knucklegrant Sex

My boyfriend (22M) and I (23F) are the best team. We love each other a lot but our sex life if miserable since I got out of birth control.

I have been on Nexplanon for the last 4 years and after depression, anxiety, mood swings and unbearable side effects, I decided to quit weeks ago.

We have tried popular brands extra sensitive and super thin condoms but he always says that he doesn’t feel anything and can’t keep the erection.

We discussed tubal ligation and vasectomy but we are not sure yet if we want kids or not in the future. And I surely don’t want to use any hormonal BC never again and I want to be free of any BC for at least a year until I feel my body normal again.

I’ve been thinking on how to have good sex without penetration (I don’t enjoy anal) trying toys but don’t know where to start or what are the good ones.

Any suggestions?

My boyfriend (22M) and I (23F) are the best team. We love each other a lot but our sex life if miserable since I got out of birth control.

I have been on Nexplanon for the last 4 years and after depression, anxiety, mood swings and unbearable side effects, I decided to quit weeks ago.

We have tried popular brands extra sensitive and super thin condoms but he always says that he doesn’t feel anything and can’t keep the erection.

We discussed tubal ligation and vasectomy but we are not sure yet if we want kids or not in the future. And I surely don’t want to use any hormonal BC never again and I want to be free of any BC for at least a year until I feel my body normal again.

I’ve been thinking on how to have good sex without penetration (I don’t enjoy anal) trying toys but don’t know where to start or what are the good ones.

Any suggestions?