About using my toys after or in between sex sessions with my husband. Even if I want to play with my toy, I feel like I’ve created an environment that is not “comfortable” using our hands or toys to pleasure ourselves in solo sessions. How do I redirect this and create a safe and comfortable environment pleasing ourselves and each other. I want a self-pleasure safe environment. When we met, masturbation made me insecure and uncomfortable but only with porn. He has multiple (much better videos) of us together and I know he prefers that. Sex and masturbating is weird post religion. 😔
To all of my post religion friends, how did you cope and evolve? I’ve been married 10 years, atheist 8 of them. You’d think it would get better. 🙄
Thank you. ❤️
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r/sex About using my toys after or in between sex sessions with my husband. Even if I want to play with my toy, I feel like I’ve created an environment that is not “comfortable” using our hands or toys to pleasure ourselves in solo sessions. How do I redirect this and create a safe and comfortable environment pleasing ourselves and each other. I want a self-pleasure safe environment. When we met, masturbation made me insecure and uncomfortable but only with porn. He has multiple (much better videos) of us together and I know he prefers that. Sex and masturbating is weird post religion. 😔 To all of my post religion friends, how did you cope and evolve? I’ve been married 10 years, atheist 8 of them. You’d think it would get better. 🙄 Thank you. ❤️ submitted by /u/Educational_Rate4162 [link] [comments]
About using my toys after or in between sex sessions with my husband. Even if I want to play with my toy, I feel like I’ve created an environment that is not “comfortable” using our hands or toys to pleasure ourselves in solo sessions. How do I redirect this and create a safe and comfortable environment pleasing ourselves and each other. I want a self-pleasure safe environment. When we met, masturbation made me insecure and uncomfortable but only with porn. He has multiple (much better videos) of us together and I know he prefers that. Sex and masturbating is weird post religion. 😔
To all of my post religion friends, how did you cope and evolve? I’ve been married 10 years, atheist 8 of them. You’d think it would get better. 🙄
Thank you. ❤️
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