Hey reddit, I recently entered a relationship and am struggling with an issue that I have had in previous relationships as well.
I want to start this off by saying that I would absolutely love to give blowjobs with no pain and discomfort. I think the action of giving your partner this pleasure to be incredibly erotic on its own and I really enjoy that aspect of blowjobs; doing something for them, no expectation of getting anything but to give your partner pleasure!
My current boyfriend is obsessed with going down on me, I love that and I want to return the favor but I struggle with BJ’s a lot; I’m not sure if I’m biting down too hard or what but when I give BJ’s it never fails that my lips are lined with canker sores a few days later; I have talked to a doctor about this It’s nothing contractable. My mouth just develops canker sores from lesions caused by biting, or being cut in some way, and in this case when I am using my lips to suck, it guess it causes enough damage to do just that. I tried to avoid spicy or citrusy foods that would make me more susceptible to developing canker sores after, I even use toothpaste that takes out an ingredient that has a tendancey to cause me to struggle with canker sores. I just am stuck, maybe I am doing something wrong? Am I going too hard, how do I avoid causing lesions on my lips from this…?
I really really enjoy actually giving BJ’s but I hate The days that follow and the pain that it causes me; I used to make my ex cum from blowjobs all the time but it always hurt me. I want to do the same in my current relationship, but I want to also increase the frequency at which I can do them without hurting myself. Sorry for such a long post and I appreciate any help or advice. Thanks reddit!
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r/sex Hey reddit, I recently entered a relationship and am struggling with an issue that I have had in previous relationships as well. I want to start this off by saying that I would absolutely love to give blowjobs with no pain and discomfort. I think the action of giving your partner this pleasure to be incredibly erotic on its own and I really enjoy that aspect of blowjobs; doing something for them, no expectation of getting anything but to give your partner pleasure! My current boyfriend is obsessed with going down on me, I love that and I want to return the favor but I struggle with BJ’s a lot; I’m not sure if I’m biting down too hard or what but when I give BJ’s it never fails that my lips are lined with canker sores a few days later; I have talked to a doctor about this It’s nothing contractable. My mouth just develops canker sores from lesions caused by biting, or being cut in some way, and in this case when I am using my lips to suck, it guess it causes enough damage to do just that. I tried to avoid spicy or citrusy foods that would make me more susceptible to developing canker sores after, I even use toothpaste that takes out an ingredient that has a tendancey to cause me to struggle with canker sores. I just am stuck, maybe I am doing something wrong? Am I going too hard, how do I avoid causing lesions on my lips from this…? I really really enjoy actually giving BJ’s but I hate The days that follow and the pain that it causes me; I used to make my ex cum from blowjobs all the time but it always hurt me. I want to do the same in my current relationship, but I want to also increase the frequency at which I can do them without hurting myself. Sorry for such a long post and I appreciate any help or advice. Thanks reddit! submitted by /u/_Shy_HeadBanger_ [link] [comments]
Hey reddit, I recently entered a relationship and am struggling with an issue that I have had in previous relationships as well.
I want to start this off by saying that I would absolutely love to give blowjobs with no pain and discomfort. I think the action of giving your partner this pleasure to be incredibly erotic on its own and I really enjoy that aspect of blowjobs; doing something for them, no expectation of getting anything but to give your partner pleasure!
My current boyfriend is obsessed with going down on me, I love that and I want to return the favor but I struggle with BJ’s a lot; I’m not sure if I’m biting down too hard or what but when I give BJ’s it never fails that my lips are lined with canker sores a few days later; I have talked to a doctor about this It’s nothing contractable. My mouth just develops canker sores from lesions caused by biting, or being cut in some way, and in this case when I am using my lips to suck, it guess it causes enough damage to do just that. I tried to avoid spicy or citrusy foods that would make me more susceptible to developing canker sores after, I even use toothpaste that takes out an ingredient that has a tendancey to cause me to struggle with canker sores. I just am stuck, maybe I am doing something wrong? Am I going too hard, how do I avoid causing lesions on my lips from this…?
I really really enjoy actually giving BJ’s but I hate The days that follow and the pain that it causes me; I used to make my ex cum from blowjobs all the time but it always hurt me. I want to do the same in my current relationship, but I want to also increase the frequency at which I can do them without hurting myself. Sorry for such a long post and I appreciate any help or advice. Thanks reddit!
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