how to help fwb cum when she has never orgasmed with anyone else /u/Farmand420 Sex

I’m a female myself and I’m seeing this other woman who has never been able to climax with others. We have slept together many times and our sex is amazing, but we agreed not to put any pressure on her having to cum, cause it’s very psychological for her and that would just make it worse.

A few times ago when we slept together I was fingering her in a new way, roughly actually. I put my hand in front of my own crotch and sorta pushed inside while also pushing upwards towards her g spit, while also thrusting against the back of my hand to get further inside her and recieve some pleasure myself. It was really good, we were close, moaning and I could tell she really let go. I was using a lot of power in my whole arm to do that and her whole body was rocking from it. She tends to get over stimulated easily where she needs to slow down but this time she just kept telling me not to stop. And then suddenly she looked upset, I stopped, she then started balling her eyes out. She said she had never been so close to orgasm with someone else before or felt that close and intimate.

So now I’m wondering how can I build on this…. Not necessarily the fingering, but the closeness she felt and how I can give her that sort of fingering while she also recieves clit stimulus so she can actually cum.

She rarely touches herself when I am inside her, cause she says it’s too many fingers down there. Only when I order her to but then she quickly stops again. She is not that into vibrators, but I know she is open to try more toys than I have shown her already. She likes oral too, but also says she is too lonely and far away from me to relax completely when I do it.

I have a theory that a big part of it is because she is also concerned with me not getting pleasure from doing things to her. I do, even if I don’t orgasm and have explained that. I’m a top, I like to dom her and do things to her. Sometimes I cum, sometimes I don’t. So what are specific things to do, where I recieve pleasure enough for her to relax and also feel close to me?

I really just want to make this girl cum and I have tried all the tricks, I just don’t know how I can help her let down that psychological barrier? Or if I should even try? I haven’t so far cause I don’t want to push her. So now I’m on reddit I stead of asking her too.

I’m a female myself and I’m seeing this other woman who has never been able to climax with others. We have slept together many times and our sex is amazing, but we agreed not to put any pressure on her having to cum, cause it’s very psychological for her and that would just make it worse.

A few times ago when we slept together I was fingering her in a new way, roughly actually. I put my hand in front of my own crotch and sorta pushed inside while also pushing upwards towards her g spit, while also thrusting against the back of my hand to get further inside her and recieve some pleasure myself. It was really good, we were close, moaning and I could tell she really let go. I was using a lot of power in my whole arm to do that and her whole body was rocking from it. She tends to get over stimulated easily where she needs to slow down but this time she just kept telling me not to stop. And then suddenly she looked upset, I stopped, she then started balling her eyes out. She said she had never been so close to orgasm with someone else before or felt that close and intimate.

So now I’m wondering how can I build on this…. Not necessarily the fingering, but the closeness she felt and how I can give her that sort of fingering while she also recieves clit stimulus so she can actually cum.

She rarely touches herself when I am inside her, cause she says it’s too many fingers down there. Only when I order her to but then she quickly stops again. She is not that into vibrators, but I know she is open to try more toys than I have shown her already. She likes oral too, but also says she is too lonely and far away from me to relax completely when I do it.

I have a theory that a big part of it is because she is also concerned with me not getting pleasure from doing things to her. I do, even if I don’t orgasm and have explained that. I’m a top, I like to dom her and do things to her. Sometimes I cum, sometimes I don’t. So what are specific things to do, where I recieve pleasure enough for her to relax and also feel close to me?

I really just want to make this girl cum and I have tried all the tricks, I just don’t know how I can help her let down that psychological barrier? Or if I should even try? I haven’t so far cause I don’t want to push her. So now I’m on reddit I stead of asking her too.