so i (22F) am a virgin in the sense that i’ve never had a penis inside of me. I am waiting until i’m in love. However I have done everything else (fingering, oral) with many men in college, and have had long term “hook ups” with out sex. all these men have treated me like trash, typical college hookup culture.
This really sweet guy asked me on a date last week and we’ve been going out often. He isn’t the type who i usually go after, he’s shy around me and really intelligent. which is a good thing lol. only problem is he is a bit awkward and has only kissed one other girl besides me. only kissed. I told him that he should feel no pressure to do anything with me and i want to make sure he’s comfortable, so i’m basically teaching him how to kiss. I tried to take it a step further a few days (finger me when i was tipsy) ago but he wasn’t comfortable and wants to take it slow (which i honestly like). but i feel conflicted. he doesn’t really know how to kiss and he’s slightly improving but i gave him a peck today after we got coffee and it was just. not good. i have needs and it’s hard when i’m 22 and need to teach someone how to kiss. how do i teach him!??? can someone tell me how to explicitly give instructions/if you’ve had to do this?? thanks so much in advance.
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r/sex so i (22F) am a virgin in the sense that i’ve never had a penis inside of me. I am waiting until i’m in love. However I have done everything else (fingering, oral) with many men in college, and have had long term “hook ups” with out sex. all these men have treated me like trash, typical college hookup culture. This really sweet guy asked me on a date last week and we’ve been going out often. He isn’t the type who i usually go after, he’s shy around me and really intelligent. which is a good thing lol. only problem is he is a bit awkward and has only kissed one other girl besides me. only kissed. I told him that he should feel no pressure to do anything with me and i want to make sure he’s comfortable, so i’m basically teaching him how to kiss. I tried to take it a step further a few days (finger me when i was tipsy) ago but he wasn’t comfortable and wants to take it slow (which i honestly like). but i feel conflicted. he doesn’t really know how to kiss and he’s slightly improving but i gave him a peck today after we got coffee and it was just. not good. i have needs and it’s hard when i’m 22 and need to teach someone how to kiss. how do i teach him!??? can someone tell me how to explicitly give instructions/if you’ve had to do this?? thanks so much in advance. submitted by /u/rooti-tootin-putin [link] [comments]
so i (22F) am a virgin in the sense that i’ve never had a penis inside of me. I am waiting until i’m in love. However I have done everything else (fingering, oral) with many men in college, and have had long term “hook ups” with out sex. all these men have treated me like trash, typical college hookup culture.
This really sweet guy asked me on a date last week and we’ve been going out often. He isn’t the type who i usually go after, he’s shy around me and really intelligent. which is a good thing lol. only problem is he is a bit awkward and has only kissed one other girl besides me. only kissed. I told him that he should feel no pressure to do anything with me and i want to make sure he’s comfortable, so i’m basically teaching him how to kiss. I tried to take it a step further a few days (finger me when i was tipsy) ago but he wasn’t comfortable and wants to take it slow (which i honestly like). but i feel conflicted. he doesn’t really know how to kiss and he’s slightly improving but i gave him a peck today after we got coffee and it was just. not good. i have needs and it’s hard when i’m 22 and need to teach someone how to kiss. how do i teach him!??? can someone tell me how to explicitly give instructions/if you’ve had to do this?? thanks so much in advance.
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