Feeling guilty about my reaction during sex /u/ThrowRAcxrn Sex

I’ve been sleeping with this guy for a few months, and it’s the best sex I’ve ever had. However, a couple nights ago, I was sitting on his face when he suddenly had to stop because his jaw was aching. That’s totally fine, but he started going on about it, grabbing my hand to feel his locked jaw, joking about it… The sudden change in mood was kind of jarring and made me feel, idk, embarassed? I was naked and flushed and he didn’t look turned on at all. I just kinda nodded along uncomfortably, then suggested I just use a vibrator to finish. He was into it and fingered me at the same time.

I think he could tell how uncomfortable I got, because he seemed to feel bad afterwards. A while later he apologized and said it wasn’t because he didn’t want to keep going, it’s just that position makes his jaw lock up quicker. I reassured him that it’s all good, I totally get it, and I think it’s super hot using a vibrator to finish with him.

I feel horrible for reacting the way I did. Clearly it made him feel bad, and I don’t ever EVER wanna make him do anything he doesn’t want during sex. It was just such a jarring shift in mood, and it made me feel really unsexy. Idk. It’s not the first time he starts talking me so casually while going down on me, and maybe that’s just how he is. He’s a very blunt person in general. But it’s hard to feel sexy or desired when he talks to me so bluntly during sex too.

Some outside perspective would be nice.

I’ve been sleeping with this guy for a few months, and it’s the best sex I’ve ever had. However, a couple nights ago, I was sitting on his face when he suddenly had to stop because his jaw was aching. That’s totally fine, but he started going on about it, grabbing my hand to feel his locked jaw, joking about it… The sudden change in mood was kind of jarring and made me feel, idk, embarassed? I was naked and flushed and he didn’t look turned on at all. I just kinda nodded along uncomfortably, then suggested I just use a vibrator to finish. He was into it and fingered me at the same time.

I think he could tell how uncomfortable I got, because he seemed to feel bad afterwards. A while later he apologized and said it wasn’t because he didn’t want to keep going, it’s just that position makes his jaw lock up quicker. I reassured him that it’s all good, I totally get it, and I think it’s super hot using a vibrator to finish with him.

I feel horrible for reacting the way I did. Clearly it made him feel bad, and I don’t ever EVER wanna make him do anything he doesn’t want during sex. It was just such a jarring shift in mood, and it made me feel really unsexy. Idk. It’s not the first time he starts talking me so casually while going down on me, and maybe that’s just how he is. He’s a very blunt person in general. But it’s hard to feel sexy or desired when he talks to me so bluntly during sex too.

Some outside perspective would be nice.