We’ve known each other for years but only recently started dating. I’m 22, he’s 26. We have so much in common, we always have so much fun and he is the kindest and sweetest person I’ve met.
The problem is when it comes to sex. We both share the same interests when it comes to it but he’s started skipping foreplay. The first time we had sex he went down on me, played with my nipples and all that.
Then he just stopped doing it. I told him how much I love it when he does it too (multiple times). He just wants to get straight into penetration even though he can tell I’m not even properly wet yet (he suggests lube). The first few times I let it slide but then I told him that I’d like him to go down on me as well. I told him it made me feel like I smell bad down there or that he’s not interested in me.
He agreed and promised he’d get into it the next time, he also felt really bad because he made me feel this way and apologised.
Nothing changed. Today I went over to his place for a few days and he promised me he’d go down on me as well and he just skipped the foreplay again. I feel too awkward to ask him the same thing again because I feel like he’d do it if he truly wanted to. I also don’t want him to do it just because I asked him to if he doesn’t enjoy doing it.
What do I do?
r/sex We’ve known each other for years but only recently started dating. I’m 22, he’s 26. We have so much in common, we always have so much fun and he is the kindest and sweetest person I’ve met. The problem is when it comes to sex. We both share the same interests when it comes to it but he’s started skipping foreplay. The first time we had sex he went down on me, played with my nipples and all that. Then he just stopped doing it. I told him how much I love it when he does it too (multiple times). He just wants to get straight into penetration even though he can tell I’m not even properly wet yet (he suggests lube). The first few times I let it slide but then I told him that I’d like him to go down on me as well. I told him it made me feel like I smell bad down there or that he’s not interested in me. He agreed and promised he’d get into it the next time, he also felt really bad because he made me feel this way and apologised. Nothing changed. Today I went over to his place for a few days and he promised me he’d go down on me as well and he just skipped the foreplay again. I feel too awkward to ask him the same thing again because I feel like he’d do it if he truly wanted to. I also don’t want him to do it just because I asked him to if he doesn’t enjoy doing it. What do I do? [link] [comments]
We’ve known each other for years but only recently started dating. I’m 22, he’s 26. We have so much in common, we always have so much fun and he is the kindest and sweetest person I’ve met.
The problem is when it comes to sex. We both share the same interests when it comes to it but he’s started skipping foreplay. The first time we had sex he went down on me, played with my nipples and all that.
Then he just stopped doing it. I told him how much I love it when he does it too (multiple times). He just wants to get straight into penetration even though he can tell I’m not even properly wet yet (he suggests lube). The first few times I let it slide but then I told him that I’d like him to go down on me as well. I told him it made me feel like I smell bad down there or that he’s not interested in me.
He agreed and promised he’d get into it the next time, he also felt really bad because he made me feel this way and apologised.
Nothing changed. Today I went over to his place for a few days and he promised me he’d go down on me as well and he just skipped the foreplay again. I feel too awkward to ask him the same thing again because I feel like he’d do it if he truly wanted to. I also don’t want him to do it just because I asked him to if he doesn’t enjoy doing it.
What do I do?