So first off I don’t shame either gender for owning sex toys, just wanna get that clear. In society though most people are accepting and normalize women having dildos,vibrators,and etc. But for a man I see it is usually seen as sad or seen as the man being a hopeless virgin if he owns a sex toy like a flesh light or pocket pussy. Why is that? It’s not just women who shame men for having sex toys it’s men too, men shaming other men. I have seen that people seem to think as if the man is hopeless and can’t get sex but for a woman she is thought to be pleasuring herself and being independent but can still have sex if she wants to. It’s seen as a normal and fun way for a woman to please herself and I agree but why not for a man too? Why is he seen as a creep virgin loser who can’t get sex just because he uses a flesh light to please himself. It’s seems that the only time it is societally acceptable for a man to use a sex toy is if he is gay or is using it with a woman partner. Anyways what’s your guys take on it?
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r/sex So first off I don’t shame either gender for owning sex toys, just wanna get that clear. In society though most people are accepting and normalize women having dildos,vibrators,and etc. But for a man I see it is usually seen as sad or seen as the man being a hopeless virgin if he owns a sex toy like a flesh light or pocket pussy. Why is that? It’s not just women who shame men for having sex toys it’s men too, men shaming other men. I have seen that people seem to think as if the man is hopeless and can’t get sex but for a woman she is thought to be pleasuring herself and being independent but can still have sex if she wants to. It’s seen as a normal and fun way for a woman to please herself and I agree but why not for a man too? Why is he seen as a creep virgin loser who can’t get sex just because he uses a flesh light to please himself. It’s seems that the only time it is societally acceptable for a man to use a sex toy is if he is gay or is using it with a woman partner. Anyways what’s your guys take on it? submitted by /u/Fiercelion564 [link] [comments]
So first off I don’t shame either gender for owning sex toys, just wanna get that clear. In society though most people are accepting and normalize women having dildos,vibrators,and etc. But for a man I see it is usually seen as sad or seen as the man being a hopeless virgin if he owns a sex toy like a flesh light or pocket pussy. Why is that? It’s not just women who shame men for having sex toys it’s men too, men shaming other men. I have seen that people seem to think as if the man is hopeless and can’t get sex but for a woman she is thought to be pleasuring herself and being independent but can still have sex if she wants to. It’s seen as a normal and fun way for a woman to please herself and I agree but why not for a man too? Why is he seen as a creep virgin loser who can’t get sex just because he uses a flesh light to please himself. It’s seems that the only time it is societally acceptable for a man to use a sex toy is if he is gay or is using it with a woman partner. Anyways what’s your guys take on it?
submitted by /u/Fiercelion564
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