Hello all. So I’ve (23m) been with my gf (22f) for 8 months now and our sex life has been amazing up until a week ago. We were doing it and I went soft. After that, the next couple of times we have tried to do the deed, I have been going soft inside her. It’s extremely frustrating and it’s been making me feel anxious and that something is wrong with me. I’m already an overthinker but not being able to cum due to going soft has been annoying. I feel like I’ve been ruminating on it which is making things worse. What should I do to prevent myself from being flaccid during intercourse? Every time I am rock hard until 1-2 minutes after i enter her. She is super supportive though I know she feels a little upset everytime it happens (she thinks I’m losing attraction to her even though I love her and am still attracted to her).
This has happened before for a period of time once but the next time I came so I didn’t think much about it. This time it has happened 4 times in a row which is concerning to me. I do feel as if I am healthy and I don’t watch porn. Is this due to me over worrying?
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r/sex Hello all. So I’ve (23m) been with my gf (22f) for 8 months now and our sex life has been amazing up until a week ago. We were doing it and I went soft. After that, the next couple of times we have tried to do the deed, I have been going soft inside her. It’s extremely frustrating and it’s been making me feel anxious and that something is wrong with me. I’m already an overthinker but not being able to cum due to going soft has been annoying. I feel like I’ve been ruminating on it which is making things worse. What should I do to prevent myself from being flaccid during intercourse? Every time I am rock hard until 1-2 minutes after i enter her. She is super supportive though I know she feels a little upset everytime it happens (she thinks I’m losing attraction to her even though I love her and am still attracted to her). This has happened before for a period of time once but the next time I came so I didn’t think much about it. This time it has happened 4 times in a row which is concerning to me. I do feel as if I am healthy and I don’t watch porn. Is this due to me over worrying? submitted by /u/Potential-Grocery706 [link] [comments]
Hello all. So I’ve (23m) been with my gf (22f) for 8 months now and our sex life has been amazing up until a week ago. We were doing it and I went soft. After that, the next couple of times we have tried to do the deed, I have been going soft inside her. It’s extremely frustrating and it’s been making me feel anxious and that something is wrong with me. I’m already an overthinker but not being able to cum due to going soft has been annoying. I feel like I’ve been ruminating on it which is making things worse. What should I do to prevent myself from being flaccid during intercourse? Every time I am rock hard until 1-2 minutes after i enter her. She is super supportive though I know she feels a little upset everytime it happens (she thinks I’m losing attraction to her even though I love her and am still attracted to her).
This has happened before for a period of time once but the next time I came so I didn’t think much about it. This time it has happened 4 times in a row which is concerning to me. I do feel as if I am healthy and I don’t watch porn. Is this due to me over worrying?
submitted by /u/Potential-Grocery706
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