TLDR wife is bad in bed and I’m frustrated and sad I (31m) and my wife (29f) have been married for 5 years and together for nearly 8 altogether. I love her entirely and feel guilty even posting this but I’m at a loss. I’m the only guy she has ever had sex with so her sexual experience is mostly with me while I on the other hand was kind of a $lut before I met her, but I loved her so I left all of that behind. We waited until we were married(actually we waited about a month after we were married) to have sex, it wasn’t very physically rewarding for me but emotionally it was the most wonderful thing I had ever done. But 5 years later and my wife enjoys sex as long as I’m doing the work. I’ve tried very hard to find things she enjoys (pegging which was very hard for me, role playing, light bondage, being dominant with her which I don’t enjoy very much, and many other things) and she likes doing those activities. However she leaves me unfinished often. I haven’t had a good blowjob in over 8 years whilst I give her several oral orgasms every time we are intimate, we do the positions she enjoys, I admittedly last awhile while she cums easily but by the time I’m about to finish she is about as involved as a toy would be, and if I’m having a hard time finishing she is eventually overstimulated and stops enjoying it so we are just done and she goes to sleep happy while I’m left feeling frustrated, sad, and not cared for idk what to do, I’ve talked to her about this so many times it’s just a waste at this point. Idk what to do, I’m very sad about feeling this way and could use some helpful advice.
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r/sex TLDR wife is bad in bed and I’m frustrated and sad I (31m) and my wife (29f) have been married for 5 years and together for nearly 8 altogether. I love her entirely and feel guilty even posting this but I’m at a loss. I’m the only guy she has ever had sex with so her sexual experience is mostly with me while I on the other hand was kind of a $lut before I met her, but I loved her so I left all of that behind. We waited until we were married(actually we waited about a month after we were married) to have sex, it wasn’t very physically rewarding for me but emotionally it was the most wonderful thing I had ever done. But 5 years later and my wife enjoys sex as long as I’m doing the work. I’ve tried very hard to find things she enjoys (pegging which was very hard for me, role playing, light bondage, being dominant with her which I don’t enjoy very much, and many other things) and she likes doing those activities. However she leaves me unfinished often. I haven’t had a good blowjob in over 8 years whilst I give her several oral orgasms every time we are intimate, we do the positions she enjoys, I admittedly last awhile while she cums easily but by the time I’m about to finish she is about as involved as a toy would be, and if I’m having a hard time finishing she is eventually overstimulated and stops enjoying it so we are just done and she goes to sleep happy while I’m left feeling frustrated, sad, and not cared for idk what to do, I’ve talked to her about this so many times it’s just a waste at this point. Idk what to do, I’m very sad about feeling this way and could use some helpful advice. submitted by /u/jimmy750 [link] [comments]
TLDR wife is bad in bed and I’m frustrated and sad I (31m) and my wife (29f) have been married for 5 years and together for nearly 8 altogether. I love her entirely and feel guilty even posting this but I’m at a loss. I’m the only guy she has ever had sex with so her sexual experience is mostly with me while I on the other hand was kind of a $lut before I met her, but I loved her so I left all of that behind. We waited until we were married(actually we waited about a month after we were married) to have sex, it wasn’t very physically rewarding for me but emotionally it was the most wonderful thing I had ever done. But 5 years later and my wife enjoys sex as long as I’m doing the work. I’ve tried very hard to find things she enjoys (pegging which was very hard for me, role playing, light bondage, being dominant with her which I don’t enjoy very much, and many other things) and she likes doing those activities. However she leaves me unfinished often. I haven’t had a good blowjob in over 8 years whilst I give her several oral orgasms every time we are intimate, we do the positions she enjoys, I admittedly last awhile while she cums easily but by the time I’m about to finish she is about as involved as a toy would be, and if I’m having a hard time finishing she is eventually overstimulated and stops enjoying it so we are just done and she goes to sleep happy while I’m left feeling frustrated, sad, and not cared for idk what to do, I’ve talked to her about this so many times it’s just a waste at this point. Idk what to do, I’m very sad about feeling this way and could use some helpful advice.
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