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Me and my boyfriends sex life has been rocky to say the least. He’s not very sexual and I’m very sexual. He rejects my advances a vast majority of the time. We pretty much only have sex when it’s on his time. Not that I’m saying it should be solely up to me or anything.
I was rejected again today by him. I normally take it well enough, but over time the same rejection over and over again can start to hurt. I got depressed and snappy and honestly it wasn’t my best look.
I don’t belive he’s attracted to me. I belive he has sex with me because he wants to please me. I don’t feel anything when he compliments me. He doesn’t flirt with me, and if he did I doubt I’d feel anything either.
For a few weeks I’ve felt bored and overall just numb to him. I haven’t brought it up because I wanted to make sure I actually felt this was and wasn’t overreacting.
I’ve been thinking about sex with other people alot recently. My boyfriend is my first, and I just can’t help it… it makes me feel like a horrid person
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r/sex Let me know if this isn’t the appropriate place to post this. Me and my boyfriends sex life has been rocky to say the least. He’s not very sexual and I’m very sexual. He rejects my advances a vast majority of the time. We pretty much only have sex when it’s on his time. Not that I’m saying it should be solely up to me or anything. I was rejected again today by him. I normally take it well enough, but over time the same rejection over and over again can start to hurt. I got depressed and snappy and honestly it wasn’t my best look. I don’t belive he’s attracted to me. I belive he has sex with me because he wants to please me. I don’t feel anything when he compliments me. He doesn’t flirt with me, and if he did I doubt I’d feel anything either. For a few weeks I’ve felt bored and overall just numb to him. I haven’t brought it up because I wanted to make sure I actually felt this was and wasn’t overreacting. I’ve been thinking about sex with other people alot recently. My boyfriend is my first, and I just can’t help it… it makes me feel like a horrid person submitted by /u/fluffyblankiee [link] [comments]
Let me know if this isn’t the appropriate place to post this.
Me and my boyfriends sex life has been rocky to say the least. He’s not very sexual and I’m very sexual. He rejects my advances a vast majority of the time. We pretty much only have sex when it’s on his time. Not that I’m saying it should be solely up to me or anything.
I was rejected again today by him. I normally take it well enough, but over time the same rejection over and over again can start to hurt. I got depressed and snappy and honestly it wasn’t my best look.
I don’t belive he’s attracted to me. I belive he has sex with me because he wants to please me. I don’t feel anything when he compliments me. He doesn’t flirt with me, and if he did I doubt I’d feel anything either.
For a few weeks I’ve felt bored and overall just numb to him. I haven’t brought it up because I wanted to make sure I actually felt this was and wasn’t overreacting.
I’ve been thinking about sex with other people alot recently. My boyfriend is my first, and I just can’t help it… it makes me feel like a horrid person
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