Me: F30 him:M31 12 years total of being in a relationship & for the past two years, my boyfriend can’t seem to keep a boner for me. It’s made me silently cry a few times thinking I’m un attractive. But also I have a big butt, long dark hair, I look like im 20y/o & people always comment that I’m so “pretty” also I’m kind, sweet, have a great career & super outgoing. At first I thought maybe he was cheating on me? – but I haven’t found ANY evidence on that and he just doesn’t seem like he is. After noticing the pattern I spoke to him & he blames it on himself and his low confidence now a days. – but it’s been TWO years! literally in the span of two years maybe two times have been successful. I can’t help but to take this situation personal. I’ve made three appointments with my gynecologist to check if maybe my PH balance is off & maybe it’s odor related but luckily everything is fine and I myself also don’t smell anything from me. So that’s also another thing I can discard. Also he masturbates on his own apparently. Not sure why that’s so hurtful. Any advice is appreciated. I’m at a loss.
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r/sex Me: F30 him:M31 12 years total of being in a relationship & for the past two years, my boyfriend can’t seem to keep a boner for me. It’s made me silently cry a few times thinking I’m un attractive. But also I have a big butt, long dark hair, I look like im 20y/o & people always comment that I’m so “pretty” also I’m kind, sweet, have a great career & super outgoing. At first I thought maybe he was cheating on me? – but I haven’t found ANY evidence on that and he just doesn’t seem like he is. After noticing the pattern I spoke to him & he blames it on himself and his low confidence now a days. – but it’s been TWO years! literally in the span of two years maybe two times have been successful. I can’t help but to take this situation personal. I’ve made three appointments with my gynecologist to check if maybe my PH balance is off & maybe it’s odor related but luckily everything is fine and I myself also don’t smell anything from me. So that’s also another thing I can discard. Also he masturbates on his own apparently. Not sure why that’s so hurtful. Any advice is appreciated. I’m at a loss. submitted by /u/Existing-Hawk3063 [link] [comments]
Me: F30 him:M31 12 years total of being in a relationship & for the past two years, my boyfriend can’t seem to keep a boner for me. It’s made me silently cry a few times thinking I’m un attractive. But also I have a big butt, long dark hair, I look like im 20y/o & people always comment that I’m so “pretty” also I’m kind, sweet, have a great career & super outgoing. At first I thought maybe he was cheating on me? – but I haven’t found ANY evidence on that and he just doesn’t seem like he is. After noticing the pattern I spoke to him & he blames it on himself and his low confidence now a days. – but it’s been TWO years! literally in the span of two years maybe two times have been successful. I can’t help but to take this situation personal. I’ve made three appointments with my gynecologist to check if maybe my PH balance is off & maybe it’s odor related but luckily everything is fine and I myself also don’t smell anything from me. So that’s also another thing I can discard. Also he masturbates on his own apparently. Not sure why that’s so hurtful. Any advice is appreciated. I’m at a loss.
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