I crushed my boyfriend by asking for an open relationship /u/fluffyblankiee Sex

Last night I called my boyfriend crying because I was having serious thoughts about sleeping with other people and it scared me. I never want to hurt him. But he’s my first and I’ve never experienced anything else. I just wish I got to find out what I liked before settling down with someone. He’s absolutely the love of my life.

We discussed possibly opening the relationship. But he’s not interested at all in sleeping with anyone else like I am. He says he feels like he’s holding me hostage because he wants me all to himself. I told him no, that’s ridiculous, and it’s a valid boundary to have.

Now I can tell he’s distraught and doesn’t know what to do..

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​r/sex Last night I called my boyfriend crying because I was having serious thoughts about sleeping with other people and it scared me. I never want to hurt him. But he’s my first and I’ve never experienced anything else. I just wish I got to find out what I liked before settling down with someone. He’s absolutely the love of my life. We discussed possibly opening the relationship. But he’s not interested at all in sleeping with anyone else like I am. He says he feels like he’s holding me hostage because he wants me all to himself. I told him no, that’s ridiculous, and it’s a valid boundary to have. Now I can tell he’s distraught and doesn’t know what to do.. submitted by /u/fluffyblankiee [link] [comments] 

Last night I called my boyfriend crying because I was having serious thoughts about sleeping with other people and it scared me. I never want to hurt him. But he’s my first and I’ve never experienced anything else. I just wish I got to find out what I liked before settling down with someone. He’s absolutely the love of my life.

We discussed possibly opening the relationship. But he’s not interested at all in sleeping with anyone else like I am. He says he feels like he’s holding me hostage because he wants me all to himself. I told him no, that’s ridiculous, and it’s a valid boundary to have.

Now I can tell he’s distraught and doesn’t know what to do..

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