guy i was seeing said when a man takes a woman’s virginity that he now owns her /u/Extension-Ad5279 Sex

So I (F17) have been seeing this guy for a bit (M18) we were talking about sex and I told him I was a virgin and asked him about his sexual past he basically said this: “as a man it doesn’t matter how many women I’ve slept with, it’s natural for men to sleep with and take the virginities of women, it’s not natural for women to have sex with any other man than the one she loses her virginity to, because the man she loses it to now owns her for life and she’ll do whatever he says a woman will never forget who she lost her virginity to” and I was shocked at what he said it seemed so ridiculous?? And wasn’t even really what i asked?? So I asked him what if the man she loses it to leaves her and has nothing to do with her anymore. Is she supposed to never have sex? And he’s all like “then she has to do anything to get him back, prove that she’s worth it, if she sleeps with any other man than the one she loses it to she’s a slut” so I definitely now do not want to lose it to him I’ve stopped talking to him but is this a thought process a lot of people have? He has also mentioned that sex is a thing men do to women, and her job is to just “lay there and look pretty”

So I (F17) have been seeing this guy for a bit (M18) we were talking about sex and I told him I was a virgin and asked him about his sexual past he basically said this: “as a man it doesn’t matter how many women I’ve slept with, it’s natural for men to sleep with and take the virginities of women, it’s not natural for women to have sex with any other man than the one she loses her virginity to, because the man she loses it to now owns her for life and she’ll do whatever he says a woman will never forget who she lost her virginity to” and I was shocked at what he said it seemed so ridiculous?? And wasn’t even really what i asked?? So I asked him what if the man she loses it to leaves her and has nothing to do with her anymore. Is she supposed to never have sex? And he’s all like “then she has to do anything to get him back, prove that she’s worth it, if she sleeps with any other man than the one she loses it to she’s a slut” so I definitely now do not want to lose it to him I’ve stopped talking to him but is this a thought process a lot of people have? He has also mentioned that sex is a thing men do to women, and her job is to just “lay there and look pretty”