Explained To My New Girlfriend How I Like Handjobs /u/SladeWilsonXL9 Sex

I (31m) am dating someone new (29f) for about 3 months now. Sex is great, but I’m a guy who loves a good handjob now and then. My girlfriend is more than happy to help with that, but she wouldn’t give them how I like it.

For one it would be super dry, and two she would literally just go straight up and down but stop right before she reaches the head so it did nothing for me. To be honest it was awkward and borderline painful but she would look like she was having the time of her life so I always felt bad correcting her or being honest or something.

When I felt like I couldn’t take it anymore cause of the pain, I would just tell her I’m too excited and let’s just have sex. But I decided to stop being shy and be honest and just explain how I like them which is pretty much with lots of lube, whether that’s saliva or actual lube doesn’t matter, and instead of just going up and down, go up and down but kind of twist your wrist over the head too.

Not gonna lie, explaining how I like them done was pretty awkward too, but she was super cool with it, felt bad I didn’t tell her sooner and gave me one of the best handjobs I’ve had in a long time! I legit thought telling her I didn’t like how she was giving them would have caused issues, but there’s nothing wrong with telling your partner how you like to be pleased sexually, as long as you do it respectfully of course.

I (31m) am dating someone new (29f) for about 3 months now. Sex is great, but I’m a guy who loves a good handjob now and then. My girlfriend is more than happy to help with that, but she wouldn’t give them how I like it.

For one it would be super dry, and two she would literally just go straight up and down but stop right before she reaches the head so it did nothing for me. To be honest it was awkward and borderline painful but she would look like she was having the time of her life so I always felt bad correcting her or being honest or something.

When I felt like I couldn’t take it anymore cause of the pain, I would just tell her I’m too excited and let’s just have sex. But I decided to stop being shy and be honest and just explain how I like them which is pretty much with lots of lube, whether that’s saliva or actual lube doesn’t matter, and instead of just going up and down, go up and down but kind of twist your wrist over the head too.

Not gonna lie, explaining how I like them done was pretty awkward too, but she was super cool with it, felt bad I didn’t tell her sooner and gave me one of the best handjobs I’ve had in a long time! I legit thought telling her I didn’t like how she was giving them would have caused issues, but there’s nothing wrong with telling your partner how you like to be pleased sexually, as long as you do it respectfully of course.