For a little context, I (21f) have been talking to someone (27m) for the past few weeks, we met on a dating app so I wasn’t really expecting anything serious out of it at first. On our second hangout we started making out, which turned to touching/kissing, and eventually we had sex. Before we fucked, I had directly asked him, “if we fuck are you gonna want to talk to me anymore, or is that gonna be the end of it?” he assured me that was not the case and that he doesn’t want a fling. I was nervous because I hadn’t had sex in over a year, he was very understanding of that and not pushy at all. That eased my worries because I have had experiences where the guy I was interested in ghosted me after getting in my pants. Anyways, we had sex and it was great to finally be touched after so long. My concern is now that he’s already loosing interest because we took it to the next level too quick, before getting to know each other better. His texts have slowed down a bit since this encounter, he still seems interested but apart of me is thinking otherwise. He’s also still dealing with drama from his ex (28f) they recently separated and I can tell he’s bothered by it, we agreed to take things slow because of this. Do some guys pretend to like you, then disappear as soon as a girl gives it up? Is he not over his ex, and I’m some sort of younger rebound? After a year plus without sex, and finally finding someone I’m comfortable with, I’d be extremely hurt if this was the case.
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r/sex For a little context, I (21f) have been talking to someone (27m) for the past few weeks, we met on a dating app so I wasn’t really expecting anything serious out of it at first. On our second hangout we started making out, which turned to touching/kissing, and eventually we had sex. Before we fucked, I had directly asked him, “if we fuck are you gonna want to talk to me anymore, or is that gonna be the end of it?” he assured me that was not the case and that he doesn’t want a fling. I was nervous because I hadn’t had sex in over a year, he was very understanding of that and not pushy at all. That eased my worries because I have had experiences where the guy I was interested in ghosted me after getting in my pants. Anyways, we had sex and it was great to finally be touched after so long. My concern is now that he’s already loosing interest because we took it to the next level too quick, before getting to know each other better. His texts have slowed down a bit since this encounter, he still seems interested but apart of me is thinking otherwise. He’s also still dealing with drama from his ex (28f) they recently separated and I can tell he’s bothered by it, we agreed to take things slow because of this. Do some guys pretend to like you, then disappear as soon as a girl gives it up? Is he not over his ex, and I’m some sort of younger rebound? After a year plus without sex, and finally finding someone I’m comfortable with, I’d be extremely hurt if this was the case. submitted by /u/babyjoker114 [link] [comments]
For a little context, I (21f) have been talking to someone (27m) for the past few weeks, we met on a dating app so I wasn’t really expecting anything serious out of it at first. On our second hangout we started making out, which turned to touching/kissing, and eventually we had sex. Before we fucked, I had directly asked him, “if we fuck are you gonna want to talk to me anymore, or is that gonna be the end of it?” he assured me that was not the case and that he doesn’t want a fling. I was nervous because I hadn’t had sex in over a year, he was very understanding of that and not pushy at all. That eased my worries because I have had experiences where the guy I was interested in ghosted me after getting in my pants. Anyways, we had sex and it was great to finally be touched after so long. My concern is now that he’s already loosing interest because we took it to the next level too quick, before getting to know each other better. His texts have slowed down a bit since this encounter, he still seems interested but apart of me is thinking otherwise. He’s also still dealing with drama from his ex (28f) they recently separated and I can tell he’s bothered by it, we agreed to take things slow because of this. Do some guys pretend to like you, then disappear as soon as a girl gives it up? Is he not over his ex, and I’m some sort of younger rebound? After a year plus without sex, and finally finding someone I’m comfortable with, I’d be extremely hurt if this was the case.
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