Dealing with sexual insecurity? 28m /u/dyl_08 Sex

Lately I’ve been dealing with some insecurity. I was a late bloomer. I lost my virginity to my partner (29f) about three years ago.

I never really cared about being a virgin before I met her, but it has been kind of bothering me.

When ever we go to parties people always talk about sex and it seems everyone has wild stories – my partner included. I feel like I have zero stories. My partner and I have routine weekend sex. It is good, but not super exciting.

One time I told someone I lost my virginity at 25 and they thought it was weird and pretty old. It seems like everyone I know has has a wild or self described hoe phase. I feel like I have a little fomo.

I have posted before on reddit and I get the typical advice about how sleeping around is not that great – but everyone I know thinks it is pretty fun.

I just don’t know what to do with these feelings. I don’t want to tell my partner. I would also never throw away what we have for a few thrills. I guess I just regret not being more out going in my younger years.

Lately I’ve been dealing with some insecurity. I was a late bloomer. I lost my virginity to my partner (29f) about three years ago.

I never really cared about being a virgin before I met her, but it has been kind of bothering me.

When ever we go to parties people always talk about sex and it seems everyone has wild stories – my partner included. I feel like I have zero stories. My partner and I have routine weekend sex. It is good, but not super exciting.

One time I told someone I lost my virginity at 25 and they thought it was weird and pretty old. It seems like everyone I know has has a wild or self described hoe phase. I feel like I have a little fomo.

I have posted before on reddit and I get the typical advice about how sleeping around is not that great – but everyone I know thinks it is pretty fun.

I just don’t know what to do with these feelings. I don’t want to tell my partner. I would also never throw away what we have for a few thrills. I guess I just regret not being more out going in my younger years.