We’ve been together for a little over 6 months and are both very happy with each other, she recently told me she loves me and I feel the same. But today after sex we somehow got on the topic of thoughts during sex and she told me she usually thinks about porn stuff to orgasm. Nobody specific and no specific fantasies, just porn related thoughts. This makes me feel somewhat insecure and inadequate even though she told me that I’m the best she’s ever had and I feel the same. My concern is that I just want her to be present with me as I am with her. I can live with it but it just makes me feel weird knowing this, honestly wish I didn’t. Is this something I should further address or just accept and forget?
TL;DR: girlfriend told me she thinks about porn to orgasm while we have sex. We discussed it and I was was weirded out but didn’t say anything. Is there any need for concern or do I just accept it?
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r/sex We’ve been together for a little over 6 months and are both very happy with each other, she recently told me she loves me and I feel the same. But today after sex we somehow got on the topic of thoughts during sex and she told me she usually thinks about porn stuff to orgasm. Nobody specific and no specific fantasies, just porn related thoughts. This makes me feel somewhat insecure and inadequate even though she told me that I’m the best she’s ever had and I feel the same. My concern is that I just want her to be present with me as I am with her. I can live with it but it just makes me feel weird knowing this, honestly wish I didn’t. Is this something I should further address or just accept and forget? TL;DR: girlfriend told me she thinks about porn to orgasm while we have sex. We discussed it and I was was weirded out but didn’t say anything. Is there any need for concern or do I just accept it? submitted by /u/greenhousepizza [link] [comments]
We’ve been together for a little over 6 months and are both very happy with each other, she recently told me she loves me and I feel the same. But today after sex we somehow got on the topic of thoughts during sex and she told me she usually thinks about porn stuff to orgasm. Nobody specific and no specific fantasies, just porn related thoughts. This makes me feel somewhat insecure and inadequate even though she told me that I’m the best she’s ever had and I feel the same. My concern is that I just want her to be present with me as I am with her. I can live with it but it just makes me feel weird knowing this, honestly wish I didn’t. Is this something I should further address or just accept and forget?
TL;DR: girlfriend told me she thinks about porn to orgasm while we have sex. We discussed it and I was was weirded out but didn’t say anything. Is there any need for concern or do I just accept it?
submitted by /u/greenhousepizza
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