How to have casual sex safely /u/Mysterious-Ant8083 Sex

I just got out of a relationship of 8 years. I was in this relationship from when I was 20 till 28. He was my first everything. One of the points of insecurity that I had during the relationship was that he was the only sexual partner that I’d even had however he’d had many before me.

Now that I’m out of the relationship, I want to have sex with a couple people before I get into another relationship. But I’m kind of scared. I’m so used to only having sex with someone I know and feel safe with. I’m not sure how to approach having casual sex with a stranger without feeling at risk for my life.

Where can I find casual sex and how do I keep myself safe having it?

Also what are indicators that someone will actually be good at sex? If I’m gonna have casual sex, I’d like to hold myself out for good sex and not bad.

I just got out of a relationship of 8 years. I was in this relationship from when I was 20 till 28. He was my first everything. One of the points of insecurity that I had during the relationship was that he was the only sexual partner that I’d even had however he’d had many before me.

Now that I’m out of the relationship, I want to have sex with a couple people before I get into another relationship. But I’m kind of scared. I’m so used to only having sex with someone I know and feel safe with. I’m not sure how to approach having casual sex with a stranger without feeling at risk for my life.

Where can I find casual sex and how do I keep myself safe having it?

Also what are indicators that someone will actually be good at sex? If I’m gonna have casual sex, I’d like to hold myself out for good sex and not bad.