How do I become more sexually attractive? /u/ShatteredRenegade Sex

I’ve noticed that all the women that I’ve ever dated has never actually been sexually attracted to me. Honestly the only thing they claim to like about me is how I treat them or my personality. My first when I was 18 was probably the only woman who seemed to have genuinely desired me sexually. Not blaming them or saying any of the women I’ve dated were a problem. It’s just that when I date I never get flirted with or any of that. The most recent woman I’ve dated claimed that she liked me more than her ex, even though he turned her on sexually. I appreciate her honestly but it does kind of hurt. I’m about to be 32 soon and I can’t help but feel like I’ve missed my chance to appear sexually attractive to someone. I mean, I take care of myself and my hygiene. I wear decent clothes. What exactly am I missing that would make me desired?

I’ve noticed that all the women that I’ve ever dated has never actually been sexually attracted to me. Honestly the only thing they claim to like about me is how I treat them or my personality. My first when I was 18 was probably the only woman who seemed to have genuinely desired me sexually. Not blaming them or saying any of the women I’ve dated were a problem. It’s just that when I date I never get flirted with or any of that. The most recent woman I’ve dated claimed that she liked me more than her ex, even though he turned her on sexually. I appreciate her honestly but it does kind of hurt. I’m about to be 32 soon and I can’t help but feel like I’ve missed my chance to appear sexually attractive to someone. I mean, I take care of myself and my hygiene. I wear decent clothes. What exactly am I missing that would make me desired?