I’ve never dated anyone before my girlfriend and I even lost my virginity to her. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now, however, I fear we may not be compatible in the long run due to some differences in values. My girlfriend is beginning to express a desire in getting married and starting a family, but tbh I’m having second thoughts. This combined with the fact that we’re having sex about once or twice a week, which I realize is normal. I personally want to have lots of sex, and I don’t feel fulfilled with having sex just 4-5 times a month, I want to have lots of sex. I just feel bad because I lost my virginity really late and feel like I’ve missed out on a lot of sex. I keep hearing about how much sex people have had in their younger years and it really hurts me feeling like I’ve missed out. I want to enjoy lots of sex too. I feel awful for saying that, but it’s true. I’m not sure I want to marry her, or even have kids tbh. She gave me a wonderful first time, and I’ll always remember her for that, and I just want her to be happy even if it’s not with me. I just don’t think I’ll be able to fulfil her the way she wants to be fulfilled. I’m thinking it’s best we break up, but since I’ve never broken up with anyone, I’m unsure how to go about it. I’ve realized I’m not ready to get married and that I want to experience more sex and relationships before I consider settling down. I don’t feel comfortable with the prospect of making her have more sex than she wants, so I feel like I want to just break up. The guilt is unbearable, it’s eating me up inside. I’d be grateful for any advice. Thanks.
TL;DR – I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don’t feel sexually satisfied.
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r/sex I’ve never dated anyone before my girlfriend and I even lost my virginity to her. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now, however, I fear we may not be compatible in the long run due to some differences in values. My girlfriend is beginning to express a desire in getting married and starting a family, but tbh I’m having second thoughts. This combined with the fact that we’re having sex about once or twice a week, which I realize is normal. I personally want to have lots of sex, and I don’t feel fulfilled with having sex just 4-5 times a month, I want to have lots of sex. I just feel bad because I lost my virginity really late and feel like I’ve missed out on a lot of sex. I keep hearing about how much sex people have had in their younger years and it really hurts me feeling like I’ve missed out. I want to enjoy lots of sex too. I feel awful for saying that, but it’s true. I’m not sure I want to marry her, or even have kids tbh. She gave me a wonderful first time, and I’ll always remember her for that, and I just want her to be happy even if it’s not with me. I just don’t think I’ll be able to fulfil her the way she wants to be fulfilled. I’m thinking it’s best we break up, but since I’ve never broken up with anyone, I’m unsure how to go about it. I’ve realized I’m not ready to get married and that I want to experience more sex and relationships before I consider settling down. I don’t feel comfortable with the prospect of making her have more sex than she wants, so I feel like I want to just break up. The guilt is unbearable, it’s eating me up inside. I’d be grateful for any advice. Thanks. TL;DR – I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don’t feel sexually satisfied. submitted by /u/ThrowRACuriousPole [link] [comments]
I’ve never dated anyone before my girlfriend and I even lost my virginity to her. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now, however, I fear we may not be compatible in the long run due to some differences in values. My girlfriend is beginning to express a desire in getting married and starting a family, but tbh I’m having second thoughts. This combined with the fact that we’re having sex about once or twice a week, which I realize is normal. I personally want to have lots of sex, and I don’t feel fulfilled with having sex just 4-5 times a month, I want to have lots of sex. I just feel bad because I lost my virginity really late and feel like I’ve missed out on a lot of sex. I keep hearing about how much sex people have had in their younger years and it really hurts me feeling like I’ve missed out. I want to enjoy lots of sex too. I feel awful for saying that, but it’s true. I’m not sure I want to marry her, or even have kids tbh. She gave me a wonderful first time, and I’ll always remember her for that, and I just want her to be happy even if it’s not with me. I just don’t think I’ll be able to fulfil her the way she wants to be fulfilled. I’m thinking it’s best we break up, but since I’ve never broken up with anyone, I’m unsure how to go about it. I’ve realized I’m not ready to get married and that I want to experience more sex and relationships before I consider settling down. I don’t feel comfortable with the prospect of making her have more sex than she wants, so I feel like I want to just break up. The guilt is unbearable, it’s eating me up inside. I’d be grateful for any advice. Thanks.
TL;DR – I want to break up with my girlfriend because I don’t feel sexually satisfied.
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