So I (24F) have started casually dating for the first time in my life. Six months ago I broke up with the only romantic partner I ever had who I dated for seven years, so venturing into casual dating has been interesting for me to say the least.
I have two FWBs (25M and 26M) and with both of them, sometime while doing something sexual, I’ve felt the random urge to tell them I love them. It’s like a non-violent invasive thought that lasts a second and I immediately shoo away. I do not have feelings for either of them. I definitely love them as friends and value them but I do not love them romantically in the slightest. This thought also usually pops into my head immediately after I orgasm and start kissing them.
I have two questions surrounding this:
1. Why does it happen?
2. I’ve heard that it’s pretty common for women to get this, but do men get this urge too?
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r/sex So I (24F) have started casually dating for the first time in my life. Six months ago I broke up with the only romantic partner I ever had who I dated for seven years, so venturing into casual dating has been interesting for me to say the least. I have two FWBs (25M and 26M) and with both of them, sometime while doing something sexual, I’ve felt the random urge to tell them I love them. It’s like a non-violent invasive thought that lasts a second and I immediately shoo away. I do not have feelings for either of them. I definitely love them as friends and value them but I do not love them romantically in the slightest. This thought also usually pops into my head immediately after I orgasm and start kissing them. I have two questions surrounding this: 1. Why does it happen? 2. I’ve heard that it’s pretty common for women to get this, but do men get this urge too? submitted by /u/rvf11 [link] [comments]
So I (24F) have started casually dating for the first time in my life. Six months ago I broke up with the only romantic partner I ever had who I dated for seven years, so venturing into casual dating has been interesting for me to say the least.
I have two FWBs (25M and 26M) and with both of them, sometime while doing something sexual, I’ve felt the random urge to tell them I love them. It’s like a non-violent invasive thought that lasts a second and I immediately shoo away. I do not have feelings for either of them. I definitely love them as friends and value them but I do not love them romantically in the slightest. This thought also usually pops into my head immediately after I orgasm and start kissing them.
I have two questions surrounding this:
1. Why does it happen?
2. I’ve heard that it’s pretty common for women to get this, but do men get this urge too?
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