29 F. Only been with spouse. I absolutely dread having sex. I only do it because he asks for it. He constantly makes sexual remarks towards me which is just more annoying than anything since I don’t enjoy it. I’ve tried to talk to him about it but he just ignores me saying “well I’ve tried to make it good for you”.
I do actually have a sex drive. I watch porn and get myself off, I would rather do this than have sex. I just am wondering if we are sexually incompatible.
TL;DR Does anyone have any tips or feedback on ways to improve their sex life? We are in marriage counseling and it hasn’t helped. Has anyone felt sexually incompatible with their spouse, if so what did you do?
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r/sex 29 F. Only been with spouse. I absolutely dread having sex. I only do it because he asks for it. He constantly makes sexual remarks towards me which is just more annoying than anything since I don’t enjoy it. I’ve tried to talk to him about it but he just ignores me saying “well I’ve tried to make it good for you”. I do actually have a sex drive. I watch porn and get myself off, I would rather do this than have sex. I just am wondering if we are sexually incompatible. TL;DR Does anyone have any tips or feedback on ways to improve their sex life? We are in marriage counseling and it hasn’t helped. Has anyone felt sexually incompatible with their spouse, if so what did you do? submitted by /u/No_Seesaw4531 [link] [comments]
29 F. Only been with spouse. I absolutely dread having sex. I only do it because he asks for it. He constantly makes sexual remarks towards me which is just more annoying than anything since I don’t enjoy it. I’ve tried to talk to him about it but he just ignores me saying “well I’ve tried to make it good for you”.
I do actually have a sex drive. I watch porn and get myself off, I would rather do this than have sex. I just am wondering if we are sexually incompatible.
TL;DR Does anyone have any tips or feedback on ways to improve their sex life? We are in marriage counseling and it hasn’t helped. Has anyone felt sexually incompatible with their spouse, if so what did you do?
submitted by /u/No_Seesaw4531
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