My boyfriend (m26) and I (f24) have been dating for 8 month. We’re still pretty much in our honeymoon phase but something that could alter our relationship forever came up a few days ago. His dad (who’s also his boss) forces him to move to another country for an amazing job offer. He can’t say no (he wants to stay in the US) and asked me to join him. I want to stay in the US because of my career and friends/family. There’s been a lot on our minds.
We’re both off work today and he slept over. This morning I woke him up with sex (which he likes and it was consensual!) and we started doing the deed. He was on top of me when he lost the strength in his arms and broke down. I saw tears and asked him to talk to me but refused. He got dressed and left my apartment within minutes. I was just confused. He isn’t texting me back so I checked his location. He’s at the gym at the moment so I figured he needs some time alone.
I’m pretty sure it’s because of whats going to happen but I’m not 100% sure. I’m afraid he’ll shut down again when I bring it up.
Any advice on how to handle this situation. Something like this never happend to me before.
Edit: typo
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r/sex My boyfriend (m26) and I (f24) have been dating for 8 month. We’re still pretty much in our honeymoon phase but something that could alter our relationship forever came up a few days ago. His dad (who’s also his boss) forces him to move to another country for an amazing job offer. He can’t say no (he wants to stay in the US) and asked me to join him. I want to stay in the US because of my career and friends/family. There’s been a lot on our minds. We’re both off work today and he slept over. This morning I woke him up with sex (which he likes and it was consensual!) and we started doing the deed. He was on top of me when he lost the strength in his arms and broke down. I saw tears and asked him to talk to me but refused. He got dressed and left my apartment within minutes. I was just confused. He isn’t texting me back so I checked his location. He’s at the gym at the moment so I figured he needs some time alone. I’m pretty sure it’s because of whats going to happen but I’m not 100% sure. I’m afraid he’ll shut down again when I bring it up. Any advice on how to handle this situation. Something like this never happend to me before. Edit: typo submitted by /u/Sharp_Pen_3798 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (m26) and I (f24) have been dating for 8 month. We’re still pretty much in our honeymoon phase but something that could alter our relationship forever came up a few days ago. His dad (who’s also his boss) forces him to move to another country for an amazing job offer. He can’t say no (he wants to stay in the US) and asked me to join him. I want to stay in the US because of my career and friends/family. There’s been a lot on our minds.
We’re both off work today and he slept over. This morning I woke him up with sex (which he likes and it was consensual!) and we started doing the deed. He was on top of me when he lost the strength in his arms and broke down. I saw tears and asked him to talk to me but refused. He got dressed and left my apartment within minutes. I was just confused. He isn’t texting me back so I checked his location. He’s at the gym at the moment so I figured he needs some time alone.
I’m pretty sure it’s because of whats going to happen but I’m not 100% sure. I’m afraid he’ll shut down again when I bring it up.
Any advice on how to handle this situation. Something like this never happend to me before.
Edit: typo
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