Stopped using condoms and I have some basic questions /u/ThrowRAbrasiliense Sex

My wife and I just started trying to have a baby. It’s my first time not using a condom because in my very few previous sexual relationships, I wasn’t interested in the risk of pregnancy and with my wife, condoms were the easiest.

But after we did it, I have some questions that make me feel like a naïve teenager again. Too embarrassed to ask friends, so I’ll try reddit.

1) I was really surprised that it felt a little rough inside of her. Is this normal? Or is this possibly a problem with me or her that a doctor should check out?

2) After I finished inside of her and took myself out of her, my load was on the bed and frankly, it looked like the entire thing. I felt like I was inside of her and she said I was, so why was the load on the bed? Is it normal for some of it not to stay inside? (please don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not trying to claim that I have a big load or whatever…I’m just an average dude)

Thanks in advance for the help.

My wife and I just started trying to have a baby. It’s my first time not using a condom because in my very few previous sexual relationships, I wasn’t interested in the risk of pregnancy and with my wife, condoms were the easiest.

But after we did it, I have some questions that make me feel like a naïve teenager again. Too embarrassed to ask friends, so I’ll try reddit.

1) I was really surprised that it felt a little rough inside of her. Is this normal? Or is this possibly a problem with me or her that a doctor should check out?

2) After I finished inside of her and took myself out of her, my load was on the bed and frankly, it looked like the entire thing. I felt like I was inside of her and she said I was, so why was the load on the bed? Is it normal for some of it not to stay inside? (please don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not trying to claim that I have a big load or whatever…I’m just an average dude)

Thanks in advance for the help.