Im in college and there is this girl I really like. She wants to have sex but Im a virgin and shes not. I dont care that she has had sex before honestly. I have been putting it off becuase I just feel like I wont be able to please/satisfy her and she wont like me anymore. I have been reading a lot on here about how to please women and Ive seen women say that they dont want to have sex unless they orgasm. I probably wont be able to do that right now so why should I waste her time and get her hopes up?
I probably wont last long enough for her and will probably be bad at eating her out because its my first time. Ive also seen stuff about sexual compatibility. If im not good right away she might break things off with me and find some one she is more compatible with.
And I know that I can only learn is by doing it but if the sex isnt good the 1st time why would she want to do it again? Its like the only way you can learn is if you are taught. You gotta have more sex to get better at it. And if you are bad at it you prolly wont get to have more sex. Sorry if this is hard to read but its so confusing to me and Im just venting a bit.
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r/sex Im in college and there is this girl I really like. She wants to have sex but Im a virgin and shes not. I dont care that she has had sex before honestly. I have been putting it off becuase I just feel like I wont be able to please/satisfy her and she wont like me anymore. I have been reading a lot on here about how to please women and Ive seen women say that they dont want to have sex unless they orgasm. I probably wont be able to do that right now so why should I waste her time and get her hopes up? I probably wont last long enough for her and will probably be bad at eating her out because its my first time. Ive also seen stuff about sexual compatibility. If im not good right away she might break things off with me and find some one she is more compatible with. And I know that I can only learn is by doing it but if the sex isnt good the 1st time why would she want to do it again? Its like the only way you can learn is if you are taught. You gotta have more sex to get better at it. And if you are bad at it you prolly wont get to have more sex. Sorry if this is hard to read but its so confusing to me and Im just venting a bit. submitted by /u/Maractop [link] [comments]
Im in college and there is this girl I really like. She wants to have sex but Im a virgin and shes not. I dont care that she has had sex before honestly. I have been putting it off becuase I just feel like I wont be able to please/satisfy her and she wont like me anymore. I have been reading a lot on here about how to please women and Ive seen women say that they dont want to have sex unless they orgasm. I probably wont be able to do that right now so why should I waste her time and get her hopes up?
I probably wont last long enough for her and will probably be bad at eating her out because its my first time. Ive also seen stuff about sexual compatibility. If im not good right away she might break things off with me and find some one she is more compatible with.
And I know that I can only learn is by doing it but if the sex isnt good the 1st time why would she want to do it again? Its like the only way you can learn is if you are taught. You gotta have more sex to get better at it. And if you are bad at it you prolly wont get to have more sex. Sorry if this is hard to read but its so confusing to me and Im just venting a bit.
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