So my (20m) and my gf (21f) have been together for a while, and we frequently used to have PIV sex, but it wasn’t in every ‘scene’ we did if that makes sense. Most of the time, I’d use my fingers, mouth, or, more recently, a toy she had, which to me is very enjoyable mentally. For the past 2 months or so, we haven’t been as intimate sexually and scenes have been spaced apart way more. Last night, however, we did do one where it was a mutual masturbation, but through the middle of it, she told me that the toy felt good, but then started going on about how much she misses my penis in her. Now context to that, is a day after a really hot shower scene (I had a condom on and I pulled out before I finished) she came up to me in bed and told me, she “didn’t want that thing in her until we decide to have kids” the whole thing kinda threw me off, I always wore protection and never finished in her, but I could respect her decision, since there are a lot of other ways to get off and it doesn’t change our dynamic much. She’s pretty distrustful of condoms since she was a condom baby, and she doesn’t really like female birth controls, but she most certainly doesn’t want to get pregnant, and we have agreed that we don’t want kids any time soon. I told her it’s her call and I’ll respect her choice no matter what. Is there like something i don’t know about birth controls?
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r/sex So my (20m) and my gf (21f) have been together for a while, and we frequently used to have PIV sex, but it wasn’t in every ‘scene’ we did if that makes sense. Most of the time, I’d use my fingers, mouth, or, more recently, a toy she had, which to me is very enjoyable mentally. For the past 2 months or so, we haven’t been as intimate sexually and scenes have been spaced apart way more. Last night, however, we did do one where it was a mutual masturbation, but through the middle of it, she told me that the toy felt good, but then started going on about how much she misses my penis in her. Now context to that, is a day after a really hot shower scene (I had a condom on and I pulled out before I finished) she came up to me in bed and told me, she “didn’t want that thing in her until we decide to have kids” the whole thing kinda threw me off, I always wore protection and never finished in her, but I could respect her decision, since there are a lot of other ways to get off and it doesn’t change our dynamic much. She’s pretty distrustful of condoms since she was a condom baby, and she doesn’t really like female birth controls, but she most certainly doesn’t want to get pregnant, and we have agreed that we don’t want kids any time soon. I told her it’s her call and I’ll respect her choice no matter what. Is there like something i don’t know about birth controls? submitted by /u/The_H34TH4N [link] [comments]
So my (20m) and my gf (21f) have been together for a while, and we frequently used to have PIV sex, but it wasn’t in every ‘scene’ we did if that makes sense. Most of the time, I’d use my fingers, mouth, or, more recently, a toy she had, which to me is very enjoyable mentally. For the past 2 months or so, we haven’t been as intimate sexually and scenes have been spaced apart way more. Last night, however, we did do one where it was a mutual masturbation, but through the middle of it, she told me that the toy felt good, but then started going on about how much she misses my penis in her. Now context to that, is a day after a really hot shower scene (I had a condom on and I pulled out before I finished) she came up to me in bed and told me, she “didn’t want that thing in her until we decide to have kids” the whole thing kinda threw me off, I always wore protection and never finished in her, but I could respect her decision, since there are a lot of other ways to get off and it doesn’t change our dynamic much. She’s pretty distrustful of condoms since she was a condom baby, and she doesn’t really like female birth controls, but she most certainly doesn’t want to get pregnant, and we have agreed that we don’t want kids any time soon. I told her it’s her call and I’ll respect her choice no matter what. Is there like something i don’t know about birth controls?
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