Advice on woman on top positions? /u/grownupendeavors Sex

I’m not very experienced (25F), and have been having trouble with being on top. I’m not sure what to do because my current partner is unhelpful since he’s not much of a talker – he’s like an fwb but not much of the f part. Maybe it’s because we barely know each other, but he doesn’t really have a response when I voice concerns about my own performance. He might just be an awkward guy too 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyways, back to the main point: I’m looking for advice on how to be on top better. I was told that I just need to find a position that suits me, but I’m not sure how to go about that. I’m a bit reluctant to figure it out in practice because I feel so embarassed when being on top doesn’t work out. It’s even harder when I apologize for being bad at sex but the other person doesn’t say anything. (I probably shouldn’t expect to be consoled especially since he doesn’t mean anything to be, but it still makes me feel unconfident and feel like closing off.) I’m also going to try to make things easier by exercising my thighs and improving my flexibility since I noticed that my weight kept falling on thighs when I try to move, but I’d really like advice on positioning and stuff. I’m 5 feet btw! Thanks in advance 😊

I’m not very experienced (25F), and have been having trouble with being on top. I’m not sure what to do because my current partner is unhelpful since he’s not much of a talker – he’s like an fwb but not much of the f part. Maybe it’s because we barely know each other, but he doesn’t really have a response when I voice concerns about my own performance. He might just be an awkward guy too 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyways, back to the main point: I’m looking for advice on how to be on top better. I was told that I just need to find a position that suits me, but I’m not sure how to go about that. I’m a bit reluctant to figure it out in practice because I feel so embarassed when being on top doesn’t work out. It’s even harder when I apologize for being bad at sex but the other person doesn’t say anything. (I probably shouldn’t expect to be consoled especially since he doesn’t mean anything to be, but it still makes me feel unconfident and feel like closing off.) I’m also going to try to make things easier by exercising my thighs and improving my flexibility since I noticed that my weight kept falling on thighs when I try to move, but I’d really like advice on positioning and stuff. I’m 5 feet btw! Thanks in advance 😊