It’s been a whole year since me and my boyfriend last had penetrative sex. I came off the pill a year ago as a result of weight gain, major mood swings and feeling lost within myself whilst taking the pill. I made the best decision ever to come off it. Me and my boyfriend had a good enough sex life 6 months prior, but now he only expects me to perform oral sex on him. He has not given me any sexual pleasure in that whole entire year. A few months ago he told me to get the implant or coil, but I’m so done with any form of BC because it has messed me up so much. I told him in return to get some condoms. However those months have passed and he hasn’t bought any so now living a sexless life. Last night he wanted me to give him a blow job. He forcefully pushed my head down there. I stopped and said “let’s go all the way”. He just continued to force my head down again without a response. I gave him his wish and even after me taking my pyjamas off, he didn’t touch me or do anything to me. I told him I feel extremely unsatisfied and that’s how I feel every time he makes me do a BJ on him. I am having to give him the attention in bed every time, but nothing for me. He’s not a great communicator so he just said “oh ok” after telling him how I feel. This is my first proper relationship so I don’t know if I’m over thinking about it or not.
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r/sex It’s been a whole year since me and my boyfriend last had penetrative sex. I came off the pill a year ago as a result of weight gain, major mood swings and feeling lost within myself whilst taking the pill. I made the best decision ever to come off it. Me and my boyfriend had a good enough sex life 6 months prior, but now he only expects me to perform oral sex on him. He has not given me any sexual pleasure in that whole entire year. A few months ago he told me to get the implant or coil, but I’m so done with any form of BC because it has messed me up so much. I told him in return to get some condoms. However those months have passed and he hasn’t bought any so now living a sexless life. Last night he wanted me to give him a blow job. He forcefully pushed my head down there. I stopped and said “let’s go all the way”. He just continued to force my head down again without a response. I gave him his wish and even after me taking my pyjamas off, he didn’t touch me or do anything to me. I told him I feel extremely unsatisfied and that’s how I feel every time he makes me do a BJ on him. I am having to give him the attention in bed every time, but nothing for me. He’s not a great communicator so he just said “oh ok” after telling him how I feel. This is my first proper relationship so I don’t know if I’m over thinking about it or not. submitted by /u/Ill_Concern_2640 [link] [comments]
It’s been a whole year since me and my boyfriend last had penetrative sex. I came off the pill a year ago as a result of weight gain, major mood swings and feeling lost within myself whilst taking the pill. I made the best decision ever to come off it. Me and my boyfriend had a good enough sex life 6 months prior, but now he only expects me to perform oral sex on him. He has not given me any sexual pleasure in that whole entire year. A few months ago he told me to get the implant or coil, but I’m so done with any form of BC because it has messed me up so much. I told him in return to get some condoms. However those months have passed and he hasn’t bought any so now living a sexless life. Last night he wanted me to give him a blow job. He forcefully pushed my head down there. I stopped and said “let’s go all the way”. He just continued to force my head down again without a response. I gave him his wish and even after me taking my pyjamas off, he didn’t touch me or do anything to me. I told him I feel extremely unsatisfied and that’s how I feel every time he makes me do a BJ on him. I am having to give him the attention in bed every time, but nothing for me. He’s not a great communicator so he just said “oh ok” after telling him how I feel. This is my first proper relationship so I don’t know if I’m over thinking about it or not.
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