Women who like feeling “pressure” when your man is on top, I’m looking for advice /u/Seven_C0stanza Sex

I started dating a woman recently, it’s very new and we are still learning about each other and what we like when having sex.

My previous GF was much less sexual and I could easily make her cum by fingering her, she rarely came from penetration and I got used to that. But so far I haven’t been able to do the same with the woman I started seeing, she’s clearly more experienced and very passionate during penetration, which I love.

Anyway, I think I just found something that really does it for her and I want to explore that further, hoping that other women who like that sensation as well could give me some insight on it and ideas of positions or moves that play to that sensation.

Last night we were doing missionary and at one point we were making out so my torso was on top of hers, then I started putting more of my weight/pressure on her pelvis as I was penetrating her and noticed she responded very quickly: more moaning, heavy breathing, digging her nails into my back, etc. so obviously I kept doing it and it just kept building up until we both came together, hard. It was amazing!

The position was missionary with me laying completely on top of her, so close that my head was next to hers, I was kind of in a plank position with most of my weight on my forearms/elbows and balancing the pressure but also trying not to crush her (she’s 5’2”, I’m 5’10” and around 60lbs heavier).

I think it was from the pressure I was putting on her clit and the grinding motion, but I’ve tried doing that with my hand before I didn’t really get a big response, so I’m not sure. Thoughts, ideas, similar experiences?

And yes, I like to communicate with my partner but I also like a bit of mystery and to be able to blow her mind with something she didn’t specifically ask for 😉

I started dating a woman recently, it’s very new and we are still learning about each other and what we like when having sex.

My previous GF was much less sexual and I could easily make her cum by fingering her, she rarely came from penetration and I got used to that. But so far I haven’t been able to do the same with the woman I started seeing, she’s clearly more experienced and very passionate during penetration, which I love.

Anyway, I think I just found something that really does it for her and I want to explore that further, hoping that other women who like that sensation as well could give me some insight on it and ideas of positions or moves that play to that sensation.

Last night we were doing missionary and at one point we were making out so my torso was on top of hers, then I started putting more of my weight/pressure on her pelvis as I was penetrating her and noticed she responded very quickly: more moaning, heavy breathing, digging her nails into my back, etc. so obviously I kept doing it and it just kept building up until we both came together, hard. It was amazing!

The position was missionary with me laying completely on top of her, so close that my head was next to hers, I was kind of in a plank position with most of my weight on my forearms/elbows and balancing the pressure but also trying not to crush her (she’s 5’2”, I’m 5’10” and around 60lbs heavier).

I think it was from the pressure I was putting on her clit and the grinding motion, but I’ve tried doing that with my hand before I didn’t really get a big response, so I’m not sure. Thoughts, ideas, similar experiences?

And yes, I like to communicate with my partner but I also like a bit of mystery and to be able to blow her mind with something she didn’t specifically ask for 😉