Wife doesn’t want to get on too cause she thinks she’s fat /u/Rancid_Insomnia Sex

My wife and I have had an insanely stressful year and she’s gained some weight. We have sex and, while it’s great, she’s very self conscious and refuses to get on top, saying that she’s “too gross” and is afraid she’ll hurt me since she’s “too fat”. While I respect her wants and am not trying to pressure her, she’s 30 lbs heavier than she’d like to be; hardly a lot of weight. She’s dealt with stigma around weight her whole life and has dysmorphia issues. Regardless, she’s lost about half the weight she wanted to lose but there hasn’t really been an improvement in self image and refuses to believe she can do or be anything sexy. But god damn, I think she has the most perfect curves that would make any renaissance painter blush. Any recommendations on how I can better help her feel beautiful while naked and get her confidence in sex back?

My wife and I have had an insanely stressful year and she’s gained some weight. We have sex and, while it’s great, she’s very self conscious and refuses to get on top, saying that she’s “too gross” and is afraid she’ll hurt me since she’s “too fat”. While I respect her wants and am not trying to pressure her, she’s 30 lbs heavier than she’d like to be; hardly a lot of weight. She’s dealt with stigma around weight her whole life and has dysmorphia issues. Regardless, she’s lost about half the weight she wanted to lose but there hasn’t really been an improvement in self image and refuses to believe she can do or be anything sexy. But god damn, I think she has the most perfect curves that would make any renaissance painter blush. Any recommendations on how I can better help her feel beautiful while naked and get her confidence in sex back?